Hi, i'm new on lucid dreaming, i've started trying it like a week ago but i still didn't succeed...anyway...i have lots of doubts about what is the best way to begin LD'ing...could you guys help me with that by sending me links to some nice tutorials or something?and i have another doubt...every time i dream, i don't dream with myself...i've never seen me in a dream, i just watch people doing things like i was watching a movie and i can't help on doing anything (idk if was clear enough, sorry xP)...is that a problem??because if i can't do anything in my dreams, how can i do reality checks and stuff like that??

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(i'm sorry if i written anything wrong...i've never had "real" classes of english before )