Hmm. I'd just like to offer some support for nesgirl.

Nesgirl, I can understand why you have a unique term for something that you've done naturally for most of your early life. But, you can't expect people to identify with terms that have usage unique to yourself. I don't expect people here to know what names i had for things in my early childhood. Instead, i adopt terms that everyone uses, so i can communicate better. If i went to china, i'd learn chinese. When i first read your comments on Sci-Fi's i was confused.

On behalf of others and myself, i would like to say we aren't trying to pick on you, we are merely trying to communicate better!