Wait, you are 19 and married?!? Wow, thats pretty cool, must be nice to meet someone you love so early in your life. Less time wasted looking for her.

Anyways, stress is a huge factor. Think of it this way- you are so stressed that you can't sleep at night. Obviously that means no dreams. But you can be really stressed and still be able to sleep. If that is the case, you may be able to nod off, to to be able to dream, you might be too stressed for that.

It's a fine balance, but really less stress equals more success.