So happy to have found this site! Maybe you all could help me with a lucid problem?

For some reason all of my dreams take place in third-person, as if I'm watching myself in a movie. I can only remember a couple times in my life that I've dreamt in first-person and I had considerable control over them. I mean, I can have lucid dreams sometimes but I have such little personal involvement with them that they usually fade away.

I've talked with a few close friends about this and they think it's because I've been writing all my life, so my brain is naturally inclined to construct dreams like I'm writing a fiction story. But I don't want this, I want to experience actual lucid dreams

Any suggestions on how to switch perspective of lucid dreams? Thanks so much