Originally posted by moon_spider
paranoia is quite annoying though, especially unfounded paranoid emanating from a subconscious source. I am certainly nervous around girls as well for sure, though once I get to know a person I am quite more relaxed, mostly just a case of worrying too much.

thank you for the welcome also, I will try and contribute positively to the boards as much as I can.
It's okay...I understand how you feel! If a DV member approached me in person (besides Splash) & did not introduce themselves, I would probably run away (especially if it was a guy!)