hey, welcome aboard, watch it, this place is addictive...and whatever you do, if you want to retain some semblance of a life, stay out of the chatroom!! j/k
Lucid dreaming does come naturally to some people, but i find i really have to work at it, only trouble is, the more i work at it, the less likely i'm to have one...so i try to just concentrate on dreamsigns and reality checks, without the thought of actually having a lucid dream.