Hey, welcome to DV :3 I'm sure that after reading up more on this site, you will find it much easier to maintain lucidity, and will be having LDs easily. As for being anti-social, don't worry, I am too, but the people here are really nice and helpful, and even if you don't feel like creating a thread for help, you can most likely find one that is already created.

Good luck, and happy dreaming c: