Welcome to DV, realmed! First of all some good news: you actually have several dreams every night, you just do not remember them. That is good news because dream recall is something you can improve fairly easily, and then you will have lots of opportunities to have a lucid dream, because every dream is such an opportunity. I would suggest you start by working on improving your dream recall, that's a good first step toward lucid dreaming. Here are some very useful ideas for how to improve dream recall: http://www.dreamviews.com/dream-sign...ompendium.html

Another good place to start: http://www.dreamviews.com/welcome/14...ere-start.html

Please do not hesitate to ask additional questions! Looking forward to interacting with you more on the forum.