Welcome to DV. Like JoannaB said, start with a dream journal. This way you will be able to work on remembering your dreams first, before you start trying to control them. This also helps you to log any unique dream signs you may have that you may be able to use as triggers to become lucid. I hope you stick around and keep trying. I joined in 2010 and although I don't get much time to practice LDing these days, I'm still trying and I know that I have the support I need here at DV to become better at controlling my dreams. Such a wonderful ability to master!