Oh wow, that's cool that you lucid dreamed all your life. I know a few people who thought everyone did too, because it came so naturally to them, as it did for you. Your experiences would probably help the newbies around here, if you cared to share.

Anyway, welcome to DreamViews! Let me know if you have any questions about dream control. You mentioned something about certain elements that you have issues with changing within the dream. I have a hypothesis about that which I have been experimenting on lately with a few others.