Thread: Hello, looking for help

What are you worried that you're doing wrong? For us to help you better, maybe you can provide more details like what all steps have you been taking to practice? Have you been doing any daytime practice? Reality Checks? Etc.

Also, what source did you use for reading about MILD? If you haven't, you could try reading Stephen Laberge's Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming. Stephen Laberge invented this technique and in reading that book, it will give you the proper setup in order for it to work like prospective memory training and such. You might have already read that or you might also just not want to try MILD any longer. If that is so, that's okay.

Continuing SSILD sounds good if you think it is working.

"SSILD in the last 10 days i got two strong near attempts, so im gonna try and stick with it, i just wannna know why i havnt had any near ones in hte last 6-7 day"

From my understanding, almost all lucid dreamers go through dry spells. I know I definitely do. It is nothing to worry about.

Okay thanks.

In terms of MILD i mostly tried reality checks and using naiya's guide, i did read laberge's book however and it gave me confidence at times as i noticed i was near lucid at times in a few dreams but that was 2 months ago and i never got lucid.

I do believe i can be lucid based on those two and the near lucids i had a few months back, but its annoying and demotivating, my dream memory is decent, i usually howver round 2/3/4 dreams, usually they can be described in a paragraph, a few nights ago i had my first dream where i remembered a flavor.