Hey, welcome to the board. From what you said in your second post, it sounds like you might be a natural WILDer. Someone will correct me if i'm wrong. Perhaps you should check out the tutorial for that, and see if it matches any of the things you do? I also find the easiest way into a lucid dream is to gradually start visualising things and putting them together.
Also, check out the other tutorials in the section, and i'm sure you'll soon find a method that suits you perfectly!