How can I practise to have lucid dreams if I've only ever had them at random?[/b]
start by reading the tutorituls and finding one you like then just practice it and ask questions.
How can we have a lucid dreams about things we haven't experienced ~ like being killed (the most obvious) etc..?? [/b]
Your mind makes up what it thinks it will be like. Lets say that you have never been to a big city before, you can still have a dream about it though cause of all the movies and pictures you have seen.
If I died in a lucid dream is there a chance of me actually dieing in real life? [/b]
nope. tons of people have died/killed themselfs in their dreams and live to tell us the expeirence.
Can anyone here tell me the easiest way for me to get a lucid dream ~ me being a noob and all [/b]
its different for everyone but i would say a dild for me.