However, I can't make a difference to a normal dream. I'm sorry, maybe this does not mean a thing.
But when I got aware of what I can do in my dreams, I did what I wanted, right away.
It's the difference between seeing this girl on the street, wishing to ask her something or actually doing it.

When I found out that I can do what I want in my dreams and when I did it, well, it's like playing a realy cool game you like, but then it gets real.


Try to get behind the person you see in your dreams, try figuring out if it's you and if it's YOU controlling this person or more, if it's YOU being it.

I think I was always aware that I was dreaming, but it took me a long time to figure out, that it is me who is creating these dreams. Identifying these two I's as one, did the trick.
Not just like watching TV, passive. No, being inside the TV.

I hope I can help you with my yada,yada somehow.

take care