Um, are you accusing someone in particular?
See, here at DV's we try SO MUCH to make newbies feel welcome, we have a newbie zone, we have Dreamguides that send them a private message to offer them with help and and introduction, so what you're saying now really hurts.

Maybe, you should try and look at yourself, right now in Chat you're spamming it with constantly saying "hi" and last time I saw you in chat, you constantly spammed emoticons.
I'm sorry if this enforces your idea of that we're unfriendly but the way you act is pretty annoying.

Perhaps you should try to type your posts with less abbreviations and spelling errors, and only post when you have something to say that contributes to the topic, and try to act a bit more mature in general.

Hope this helps.