Personally, I think you should try something else since you pretty much new the whole Lucid Dreaming experience. I never like suggesting WILD to newbies. I'm not kidding when I say that pretty much 90% of the time, they can't do it. Why not try DILD instead. It'll get your foot in the door so you can work your way up to a WILD. If you still want to try, it's probably best to strengthen you recall above all else. Of course, I'm NO expert on WILD. If you go to the search function, look around for posts that address all of your WILDing problems, because everything in your post is being discussed in a couple of recent threads. And there's always the Tutorial Section.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask me or anyone else with green stars.