Hey Lulian. I also get all of my lucids from DILDs. I really don't do much to get them, just RCing a couple times a day. Maybe you should try a different reality check? Try and remember how you got to the place you are at. When you think you are waking up, do a DEILD. Stay still and keep your eyes closed, most of the time you go right back into the dream. In mirrors I look pretty much the same as in real life, but if there are multiple mirrors I have different facial expressions in them.