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[coco pan]

Hello! I found this forum because I'm seeking advice... I love dreaming, have fairly regular lucid dreams, and have had mutual dreams with several close friends, a couple of my cousins, and past lovers. Currently I am having a problem with my dreams being disturbed my ex-partner...I posted about this in the "Dream Control" section. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Anyway, I'm happy to have found this forum! Thanks! Blessed Be. Coco Pan

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Welcome to DV! About your ex-partner... I'd recommend either a chainsaw or a flamethrower. Lightning would work well too.

[C911]

Wow, mutual dreams? If you are serious, you should definately post about that in the Beyond Dreaming section. I am positive you will become god if you tell them how to do it.

[yuriythebest]

how do I have shared dreams please help

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I am positive you will become god if you tell them how to do it. how do I have shared dreams please help He must be psychic or something...

[C911]

Yep, told ya.

[coco pan]

how do I have shared dreams please help well i've only had shared dreams with people with whom i'm already psychically connected. my brother, my cousins, my ex, my best friend, two close friends who are twins (that was 3 of us together), a client of mine (i work with women who have developmental disabilities and mental illnesses), and i think my dog. at least half of my mutual dreams have been spontaneous. however, when they were lucid and purposeful, we talked about it beforehand, went to bed around the same time, had a "setting" already picked out. my cousins and my brother and i used to all agree to meet at a cabin with a red door by a lake in montana. it did often work! sometimes we'd all fall asleep with our heads together. i've often had a red door as a signal and a reminder that i was supposed to find someone or meet someone in a dream. my best friend and i were going to meet by lake michigan (where we are both from) by a building with a red door. i ended up floating in lake michigan on top of a door. then i started thinking about red doors, remembered that it often meant i was to meet someone, looked at the shore and there was my best friend waiting for me. accidental shared dreams are not always lucid for me. the first mutual dream i had with my ex was not lucid and our perspectives were noticeably different. i saw her on the side of the road and she was hitch-hiking and i decided to pick her up. in her dream she was running from people and i picked her up to rescue her. in my dream, however, i was unaware of the danger that she was running from. anyway, good luck! my best advice is to talk about it beforehand, go to sleep around the same time, have a meeting place picked out, and do it with someone to whom you are very close.

[Bizarre Jester]

What she is telling us is that her ex is a recurring character in her dreams and that she doesn't want to have dreams of him anymore. What I would suggest doing is banishing him from your dreams next time he appears in one. Shout out that he is not allowed to enter your dreams anymore. Believe that it will work also, afterward he shouldn't appear again.