Hey guys.

Never been here before, came across this place via Google.

Reason for posting is that it appears I am the first person to ask this question on the internet (well, so Google tells me).

My partner usually has bad dreams. Which obviously upsets me.

She keeps having dreams where I am not in them. This on it's own doesn't bother me, I have never held much respect for dreams, they never phase me and I have no problems disregarding them. What upsets me is that my partner does, she looks at every dream and tries to analyze it.

Lately she has been having a lot of dreams where she is in situations that she wants me to be there. In her dreams I am always on her mind and am the deciding factor in how she reacts in her dreams but am never there in person.

The last dream she had she was with friends and an ex, she was pregnant (she explained it was my baby). She was planning to jump the border with illegal documents and then go into hiding. In her dream she was distraught that I wasn't there as she was going to miss me terribly and that she would never see me again.

She woke up to tell me this whilst crying and wanted to know why I am never in her dreams. She then asked me "will you always be there for me?" to which I strongly said yes and replied with "have I ever not been there for you?" to which she promptly replied "never".

If it were up to me, I would dismiss this dream as rubbish, like I said, dreams don't bother me but because my partner sees dreams as the subconscious trying to tell you something, I want to try and understand.

Can anyone help me try and understand what these dreams mean? I love her with the power of 10,000 angry gods, and she shows me and tells me on a regular basis that she feels the same.