[size=18]Greetings to you Revan

That is great that you have finally decided to join. Hopefully we can determine a method that will work for you.
You have too many similarities to me for me to help much. First I am always (90% of the time) at my house when I become lucid. And second I also don't even know how I became lucid most of the time.
My life has very lttle fantasy and a lot of realism. So on the occasions I do become lucid it stems from being aware that something is not right in the dream, triggering my lucidity. WILDS rarely work.
I can point you to the Tutorials and hope you find something in there that may help. You have most likely already looked at them so I encourage you ask a lot of questions, for there are many experienced Lders in the Forum.