Originally Posted by saltyseedog
Peace can be made with war. if you win the fight and are fighting for equallity and love. I would be nice if everyone could just decide to put their weapons down and not fight anymore. But in truth people don't do that and that is why killing people with kindness normally doesn't work in most situations. Because they are provoking you. They have hate for you. You fight their hate. Overcoming it with love. However that manifests. As violence or a hug of understanding and love. It really depends on the situation. Is their intention out of self importance? Is that the source of their anger? Are they fighting because they believe someone is being hurt? are they fighting for unconditional love and freedom for all? it depends on the intention.
Even if those are your intentions, if you are violent and attack people you are not making peace. If you conquer a violent race of people and take their land violently, is the land not still occupied by violent people?
In my experience, if you do it right, if you show them compassion rathter than just acting nice, killing them with kindness works in every situation. Compassion is always the right choice, agression is never.
Whether something is right or wrong does not depend on your intentions. It depends on whether or not it causes harm or suffering. It is not ok to hurt other people, why would it be? They don't deserve it, there is no such thing as deserving, it's just an opinion you hold.
If they strike the first blow it's completely different. But even if they are threatening you, the loving action is not attacking them, it's talking to them. And not threatening back, but getting to the root of the problem and working it out rationally.
It depends on the situation and what is the best thing to do in that situation.
This I agree with, but attacking someone is never the best thing to do. Even in extreme situations. Like with a violent oppressive government.
Sometimes self importance destroys others. sometimes it is best to destroy that source of self importance to stop the destruction. That is why people rebel against their governments. Because they are filled with self importance rather than being for the good of everyone in the country. they are motivaated out of greed. So often people are pushed to the limit and they get pissed and violent and change that. It happens the same in realtionships between humans. Whatever you feel that is ok. Just go with it. Your feelings are perfectly ok. and its ok to be yourself.
By destroying a source of destruction, you merely create another.
Can you show me an example of a violent revolution that brought lasting peace(you can't, I've already looked for one)? America rebeled against the british and look where we are now, we're worse than they were. We polute everything and go to other countries to steal their resources. We aren't peaceful.
We have violent and corrupt governments, yes it's true. BUt if we violently overthrow them the people in charge of overthrowing them will take over. All you get is a new oppressor. In america, we say we have democratic ideals so we're good, we're better than these opressors. BUt just because dirt tastes better than shit that doesn't mean you should eat it. The ideal, the best way of being, is to be non-violent, which does not mean that you don't fight back, it means that you don't start conflict on every level of life.
There have been peaceful societies on this earth that never attacked anyone. I believe that if we have a peaceful revolution and overthrow the government through non-violent means we can go back to living like this, we can stop having societies based on dominance and move back toward voluntary relationships. But a violent revolution will never bring about real change, real freedom. Just maybe at best less opression for a while until things add up and it gets bad again.
Sometimes humans need to change their relationship, yes. BUt aggression is never the best way to do it. If you don't want them around, make it known and leave. If they are physically harming you and following you it is not agression when you hit them but defense.
Is it ok when the rapist feels horny and wants to rapes someone? No, unless you really don't care about people and don't give a damn what happens.
If you are angry that is ok, but it is not ok to get angry. It can always be avoided and it does noone any good.
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