Nope. |
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do you think it is alright, if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, to look at other women/men? |
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Ignorant bliss is an oxymoron; but so is miserable truth.
I think it depends on what you mean by "look". If you just happen to glance over at another girl nothing wrong with that. If you sit there staring at her though, thats another matter. |
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I'm freaking talkign about looking over at a girl and seeing her in a freaking spaghetti strap shirt and going "Mmmmm" OKAY. |
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Ignorant bliss is an oxymoron; but so is miserable truth.
That kind of look is not ok But I voted already |
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A glance is okay. you know look briefly and then go back to whatever he was doing. |
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Curiosity killed the cat but at least it didnt die an ignorant bastard
it's up to circumstances. -- for instance... i was at a restaurant with my girlfriend last week... we're sitting there and this guy over my right shoulder keeps looking at her... she says it's kind of creepy because the dude is with his wife and kids! you see... that's not ok. the dude is married... |
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clear eyes. strong hands.
I think that even if you're married the impulse to look at sexy butt or whatever doesn't go away so why the hell not. |
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i never said the impulse went away when you got married... it's just something that needs to be suppressed. |
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clear eyes. strong hands.
that's a different scenario. o_o; |
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As long as it's just looking. Unless you're married, then I'd say no to looking. (But only in the scenario like adidas describes.) |
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ok when you see a pretty girl i know you just cant help thinking pretty girl ... but you leave it at that... just a glance... Anything else is off limits. |
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I go with the following words of advice in this scenario: |
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An idea is something you haven't fully considered.
A belief is merely a repetitive thought.
A conclusion is simply where you stopped thinking.
If you're in a relationship, I feel that it is important to be dedicated to the person you're with. Now, if you see someone else come along, don't go after them. I would spend more time with the person I'm already with and if I felt that I could live without being eternally close to them (maybe that's pushing it) and still had feelings for this other person, I'd let the person I'm with down slowly, but still remain close friends with them. |
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"If there was one thing the lucid dreaming ninja writer could not stand, it was used car salesmen."
If the person your with notice your looking, your looking to much. |
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Paperdoll already knows my stand on this, but I think that if you are with someone, it is only common decency to not look at other girls that way while your parter is with you. Just put yourself in her/his shoes and think whether or not you would mind if your partner did the same thing. |
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If I hadn't made me
I'd be more inclined to bow
Powers that be would have swallowed me up
But that's more than I can allow...
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I understand what you are trying to say, but unless you have some sort of implicit agreement, I just think it is disrespectful to do so in front of your mate. It's not about jealousy, I just think it's not a pleasant thing for her to watch. But that's just me... |
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If I hadn't made me
I'd be more inclined to bow
Powers that be would have swallowed me up
But that's more than I can allow...
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Ignorant bliss is an oxymoron; but so is miserable truth.
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[quote]it's up to circumstances. |
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clear eyes. strong hands.
There is a time and place for everything. I think it is a lack of respect to look at other women or men when you are with your partner. It is obvious that just because you are "with" someone that you will still find other people attractive. So on occasion to look at somone you find attractive while you are not with your significant other seems to me to be OK. Maybe I sound contradictive. |
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I think it's ok if you don't make it SOOOOOOOO obvious to your lover. I wouldn't like it if a boyfriend was like "Ohhhhhhhhh, DAMN she's hot!! GOD I want to do her, WOOHOOOO!!!!!!" in front of me. However, if my boyfriend was like, "I think she's hot, what do you think?" Then I could honestly answer him "yes" or "no", because it was an honest question. So long as he wasn't TRYING to make me jealous, ya know? I think there's a difference between a guy just "looking" and a guy trying really desperately to make me jealous or test me as it were. I'll just ignore him if that's the case. |
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Depends, really...How much confidence do you have in yourself or your lover/spouse/significant other? Just comes down to trust. So, either way, it depends really... |
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“If only I was equipped with the capacity to
utilize my brain for witty quips.”
Vira why are you bumping these threads? |
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