Thread: Tell me about how to pick up a chick that i don't know or have any classes with but i've seen around

Hi Hercuflea,

I haven't read all the posts, but I did read that your friend told her you liked her.

That was going to be my suggestion.

I think people are curious and flattered when they get told that someone likes them.

Initially, she might react kind of negatively like, 'I don't even know him, he's probably a dork - ah, he is a dork isn't he!', but if you don't let that bog you down, you may find that time is the factor. I know I wouldn't jump at someone's suggestion, no matter who they were, it just wouldn't be cool.

So yeah, so if your friend has only mentioned it once or twice that is optimum. Now just sit and wait like a crocodile/alligator - it may take awhile, but eventually she will manoever a situation to find out more about you, and maybe acknowledge you in some way.

Also, tell your friend not to say anything any more for now, but if she asks him/her about you then they are to say 'yeah, he thinks your beautiful, and wants to get to know you'. She may put you both off again, but eventually curiousity will get the better of her. People like to be admired, like to have secret admirers, and feel flattered when someone thinks so well of them. So yeah, there would be a pretty good chance she will eventually try and make some kind of initial connection, and then you have to persevere, just stay cool and state plainly, that you find her really attractive, and would like to get to know her more. Even really hot, kickass chicks have their real side that is bowled over by honest appreciation of them.

But there is the type, that will always remain a b*t*h about it all, and if that's the case it may never work for you. However, even they can still come around, depends on what kind of defence mechanisms she has. Some will test you with offputting negative stuff, which is really about them not wanting to look like a fool, so persevere with cool honesty. But don't go outwardly crazy over it, just stay open yet welcoming, haha.

Yeah so essentially, don't get put off by initial reactions.

Then what happens if the chick is already your friend?

This chick is like 2 years older than me, but she's real cool and borderline genius, how do you get further than the good ol' "just friends"?

P.S. Hellohihello, I'd like to join this "grammar police" thing of yours.

well school's out and i will never see her again so this threads pretty much dead

You never know. The world is not a very big place.

Even if you never see her again, you will definitely see someone who reminds you of her. Someone who makes you feel the same way. Be prepared, and don't miss your next chance.

Along with Robot Butler, I'd just like to mention the proverb 'plenty of fish in the sea'. Even though you didn't get it this time, there's virtually an infinite amount of tries. Keep on trying and you'll succeed

well lets see

Go to a party she is at...
Act like your really drunk,

tell her everything youve3 ever wanted without the nervous feeling..

then the next day ask the simple question.. what did we talk about last night

If she likes you then she will say what you said.. if she doesnt she will simply say anything but what you said such as " a whole bunch of stuff"

or you could take a friend over with you to talk to her a friend really helps relive the nervousness but don't let her notice at first how much you like her... mayby ask her to hang out sometime... this will keep her guessing hopefully "does he like me" this will make her more open to you when youll hang out because shes not for sure if you like her yet... so she have to work to get you

I wasn't aware people still used the phrase "pick up a chick". Hm.