Thread: Do you think its hard to find true love?

It takes effort, for sure. Sad to say, you haven't met a nice guy yet, it seems. Have you ever considered going after nerds? We tend to be nicer, quieter, more romantic, and more caring. The teenage years are some of the worst for finding love. All I can say is...don't rush it, and don't settle for anything below your standards. You'll meet a sweet guy, I'm sure, who's going to dazzle you. We aren't all that uncommon.

Originally Posted by Mario92

It takes effort, for sure. Sad to say, you haven't met a nice guy yet, it seems. Have you ever considered going after nerds? We tend to be nicer, quieter, more romantic, and more caring. The teenage years are some of the worst for finding love. All I can say is...don't rush it, and don't settle for anything below your standards. You'll meet a sweet guy, I'm sure, who's going to dazzle you. We aren't all that uncommon.

Ninjy has my heart but he lives too far from me.

And some of the nerds by me annoy me due to because they can never listen to me and always get themselves involved in Yugi-Oh and stuff..

I am glad that your so optimistic

lol, I posted

Originally Posted by TheUnknown

lol, I posted

Lol typical Unknown

Sorry, used to IRC one liners. Gotta get back into forums.

Originally Posted by TheUnknown

Sorry, used to IRC one liners. Gotta get back into forums.

Yea.. be that way

Is it hard for find true love? Hmmm, i'll tell you when I find it...

I'd say impossible, but that's just me.

It's impossible to find true love...

...Because it will find you.

My point being, I doubt you'll find it if you go looking for it. But if you stay patient and follow your heart, eventually you'll find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Originally Posted by Fabio-the-dreamer

.... eventually you'll find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Yes, but what happens when we find that person and the adulation period starts to wear off, we start to see their flaws & they no longer meet our expectations.
Then they're back to complete assholes.

Originally Posted by LunaLovegood

Ninjy has my heart but he lives too far from me.

And some of the nerds by me annoy me due to because they can never listen to me and always get themselves involved in Yugi-Oh and stuff..

I am glad that your so optimistic

Aye, that can be a problem. But yeah, you'll definitely find true love, I'm sure, being the kind young woman that you are. Give it time, go with the flow, and look in places you may not consider at first glance. If you find a nice guy, don't hesitate to go ahead and ask him out...a lot of guys actually really dig that.

Originally Posted by FifthElement

Yes, but what happens when we find that person and the adulation period starts to wear off, we start to see their flaws & they no longer meet our expectations.
Then they're back to complete assholes.

Then you clearly didn't meet someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

And LLG, My advice would be to find somebody who really listens to you. Otherwise, He's not worth your time.

Only in soviet russia.

Simply because in soviet russia, you find true love, but everywhere else, love finds you!

Creation, I'm going to direct you to my first post. It's a little bit above this one.

Originally Posted by Mario92

Aye, that can be a problem. But yeah, you'll definitely find true love, I'm sure, being the kind young woman that you are. Give it time, go with the flow, and look in places you may not consider at first glance. If you find a nice guy, don't hesitate to go ahead and ask him out...a lot of guys actually really dig that.

Thanks :3

I found this guy I really liked at school. he was really sweet and kind but I missed my chance to ask him. :/

Originally Posted by Fabio-the-dreamer

Then you clearly didn't meet someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

And LLG, My advice would be to find somebody who really listens to you. Otherwise, He's not worth your time.

Thanks fabio :3

Originally Posted by LunaLovegood

I found this guy I really liked at school. he was really sweet and kind but I missed my chance to ask him. :/

Million fish in the sea. Any guy would be crazy to not ask you out somewhere, and if they don't, it's their loss.

Originally Posted by Mario92

Million fish in the sea. Any guy would be crazy to not ask you out somewhere, and if they don't, it's their loss.

aww thanks. Man I would envy a girl who had you

Thanks

Personally, as of this moment, I wouldn't say it's very hard. I already know a guy who is so amazingly awesome for me, even though he lives too far away. Plus I've got an entire life to live and plenty of time for the right person to come along.

With the age of the internet, it's becoming so easy to find people who share your tastes and actually match with you. Granted, you lose physical social contact with the internet, but it's still a step forward in my opinion.

This is difficult for me. Every time I am crushing on a girl that I like, I always get rejected. Or it turns out they have a boyfriend. I've gotten rejected allot of times. Maybe they don't like geeky shy guys. Who knows. The last girl I liked turned out to be a player and made everyone thought I was obsessed with her and they claimed I was mental and she was laughing her ass off about it. Oh well. Maybe I'm better off. >_>

Until I feel love for myself I don't believe it exists. Or at least I don't believe it exists in the strong poetic way it's expressed in music and films.

Originally Posted by DeeryTheDeer

Personally, as of this moment, I wouldn't say it's very hard. I already know a guy who is so amazingly awesome for me, even though he lives too far away. Plus I've got an entire life to live and plenty of time for the right person to come along.

Same here!

Originally Posted by hgld1234

Same here!

I agree

Originally Posted by LunaLovegood

Cuz I think so. So many males around my town are complete assholes ._.

lol most guys are assholes. Trust me.