Hey there...welcome to the forum.

Well I never chose to lucid dream...nor did I even know what it was...I just began having lucid dreams about 5 years ago. I think the real question is, why would anyone NOT want to be lucid? There is so much we can learn about ourselves, others, and the world around us through our dreams it is such a gift that we are able to be lucid during these experiences and hopefully become better people through them...and of course have some fun along the way!

I don't really get what you meant about falling in love though. You lucid dream because you want to fall in love? Or so that you can be with someone you are in love with?