Every single time i have the opportunity to become lucid i become lucid but when i want to do something cool like walk into a wall or fly i cant . In this one dream i had i was in my room and was like, " Hey im dreaming!" so i tried to make a can of soda appear on my bed but it wouldnt and i got so pissed. I truly believed that it was going to appear but it never did and as for the wall thing well i tried running into it but ended up hitting my forehead in my dreambody and it hurt This always happens to me and i have never had one single lucid dream where i have had control.I dont understand why . Can someone tell me how they maintain control other than "believing" you can do anything ? I mean when i am lucid it is just as boring as waking life i dont know what my stupid brain has against me.When i do become lucid though i want to make things appear like hot guys and such, anyone know how to do that? Any experiences similar to mine any success stories? Share your thoughts.