Hi All

Had a strange experience similar in some respects to the concept of shared dreams. As usual, it could easily have just been a coincidence.

Around 4AM this morning, while I was dreaming, my wife had woken and decided to try 'intrude' on my dreams.
She lay her head close to mine and tried to meditate/visualise going into my dream. Funny thing is, she's always been bad at visualising, but she said she felt almost zenlike this time - could visualise everything vividly.

She kept the forced 'dream' fairly simple, was an empty white room with me and her in it. She was trying to push sexual favours on me (blowjob) 8)
She said I didn't want it

Anyway... when I woke this morning, she told me only the part about trying to be in my dreams. And asked me if I dreamt of anything sexual. At first I couldn't - I had 2 other dreams blocking my memory.
So I tried recalling a bit more - and there was a strange dream after all.

Remember, at this stage she hadn't told me the details from her side.

My dream was of having a false awakening. But I wasn't lucid at all.
My wife was trying to give me a blowjob - forcefully - under the sheets.
She kept nipping and hurting me
So I was trying to push her away, but she was insistent about it.
The only real difference was that she imagined us standing up, not lying down. But that likely has to do with the fact that her visualisation wasn't really part of my dream. Just 'forced' visuals.

I found the similarities pretty interesting. I asked her to try it again sometime.

Perhaps this has some bearing on how shared dreams work. And why they usually seem to happen to people close to you (emotionally and physically)

Thought I'd share it Sorry if its too... personal ...