Dream interference?

[Placebo]

Hi All Had a strange experience similar in some respects to the concept of shared dreams. As usual, it could easily have just been a coincidence. Around 4AM this morning, while I was dreaming, my wife had woken and decided to try 'intrude' on my dreams. She lay her head close to mine and tried to meditate/visualise going into my dream. Funny thing is, she's always been bad at visualising, but she said she felt almost zenlike this time - could visualise everything vividly. She kept the forced 'dream' fairly simple, was an empty white room with me and her in it. She was trying to push sexual favours on me (blowjob) 8) She said I didn't want it Anyway... when I woke this morning, she told me only the part about trying to be in my dreams. And asked me if I dreamt of anything sexual. At first I couldn't - I had 2 other dreams blocking my memory. So I tried recalling a bit more - and there was a strange dream after all. Remember, at this stage she hadn't told me the details from her side. My dream was of having a false awakening. But I wasn't lucid at all. My wife was trying to give me a blowjob - forcefully - under the sheets. She kept nipping and hurting me So I was trying to push her away, but she was insistent about it. The only real difference was that she imagined us standing up, not lying down. But that likely has to do with the fact that her visualisation wasn't really part of my dream. Just 'forced' visuals. I found the similarities pretty interesting. I asked her to try it again sometime. Perhaps this has some bearing on how shared dreams work. And why they usually seem to happen to people close to you (emotionally and physically) Thought I'd share it Sorry if its too... personal ...

[Ev]

That's cool! Tell us if you will succeed next time

[Seeker]

Interesting, I've never thought of using meditation after waking to try to enter anothers dream. I've always tried to do it from a lucid dream. Maybe that's why it hasn't worked for me yet. I'll try tonight, wonder if I could get her to fix me some beer and brots in her dream?

[Placebo]

That's cool! Tell us if you will succeed next time[/b] Sure will ! never thought of using meditation[/b] It's a pretty original concept. No idea what caused my wife to even consider it! fix me some beer and brots[/b] Haha.. I should ask my wife to try something a little more normal too - not forcing me into oral sex

[Seeker]

Originally posted by Placebo I should ask my wife to try something a little more normal too - not forcing me into oral sex Forcing, yeah, riiiiiggggghhhttt.

[Placebo]

Well thats the wierdest part! She had to force me! Me? Of all guys?? Dreams can do strange things to you (I'll keep telling myself this..harhar)

[GodSpeedDreamer]

i don't think u would have to have your head close to the person u wanted to enter there dreeams. but then again who knows. keep us updated. i only had one of these kind of dreams... but its a little, well alot different. my sister has not been able to control her dreams well. she hates nitemares. i dreamt that i entered her nightmare and i was already lucid from the start{is this a wild? cause i dunno what that is?} a dog was chasing her {little dog too lol} and i put my hand up and the dog stopped. i said watch this. ill make the dog chase me instead u take notes. i also made the dog appear on the other side of the fence for chits and giggles.{the dream was n place of our old home we lived n together} so ne ways the dog was n the feild i was n back yard. i told her im going to fly u go on the streeet. whereever u see me the dog is beneath me. i grabbed the fence put my feet{like climbing up it until my feet was higher than hands} and lunched myself into the air about 70 ft{not one emotional effect ocurred to awaken me. i was stable and it was alot of fun. i told her about it and she said she always dreams of a dog chasing her but she didn't recall ne dream that night. and she lives 7 blocks from me.

[Placebo]

I haven't had another experience like this yet, but thought it interesting to add that my wife and me recently discovered that we had some telepathic talent with each other. Playing 'guess what I'm thinking' games, can get pretty darn accurate Eg. the last time, my wife got 4 (almost 5) guesses correct. And each attempt was a different subject (fruit, PS2 buttons, animals,etc)