Dreams like this border between dream interpretation and relationship advice. It's a common issue. |
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I've had several recurring dreams about my husband having illicit affairs on me. The dreams always involve different women, but the acts themselves and my husbands behaviors remain the same. I catch him in the act/try to adhere to his sexual wants (like a threesome) and then I will back out because the acts make me uncomfortable and go against my morals. Then (I guess as punishment for not conforming to the act)my husband proceeds to have sex with the women in very provocative and humiliating ways and watches me as I watch him commit these acts. He always comes back after committing these acts and says "it's no big deal" or "that it shouldn't bother me" and I wake up feeling horrible because my husband echos the exact thing this "alter" of his told me in my dreams, because they're just that, dreams. I feel horrible, an I know it was a dream and he didn't do these things to me. But my husband has told me before he was very promiscuous and wild before we got together and he's told me several very private things about his past relationships with these women he was with. And I've never been with anyone but my husband, so we're coming from two completely different fields of sexuality. Another thing that tugs on me is he's confessed to have cheated on a girl once before, but they we're in a committed relationship, they were just sexual partners who eventually outgrew each other. What do these dreams mean, because I can't stop them from recurring. Can someone please help me? It's getting to the point where I don't want to sleep because the dream keeps coming back worse than the one before that. |
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Dreams like this border between dream interpretation and relationship advice. It's a common issue. |
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melanieb pretty much got it right. my wife had similar dreams of me, lol, though not as graphic, more about me being flirtacious with other girls (im not flirtacious but i get attention from girls--thus i think comes her insecurity). for sure though your subconscious is trying to tell you something. if you dont have kids with him, leave him. if u have kids, bite the bullet until they are older, like in college, and then leave him. that is what i would do. yea dreams i take seriously, they hold truths otherwise hidden. i dont have dreams of my wife with other men because i know she's not. not that your husband is cheating on you, but he's probably flirting with other girls or something or else you wouldnt have these dreams, in my opinion. |
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^^ lol Whoah there! |
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The dreams are just showing your worries. |
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I've had really graphic, reoccuring dreams about my husband cheating on me, even though I know he's always been faithful. They were absolutely horrible and I would wake up from them sobbing. I've always attributed them to my own insecurities. Your dreams are probably nothing more than your worries bleeding into your dream world. Maybe talking about them with your husband could help ease your mind a little, at least it did for me. Good luck! |
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Im gonna take the Freud approach here because im a terrible person...so take it with a grain of salt.. |
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