Thread: Tantric (Sexual) Meditation Tutorial

OK, I'm definitely listening now thanks to those last two posts.

But I will need a more detailed instruction list, those steps to me were a little vague, as I don't do much meditation. The only meditation I do is when I try to WILD, which I know isn't even meditation.

Could you maybe go over the positions in more detail and what I basically have to do please?
Such as can I put my legs up against a wall when I keep them up straight?
And what exactly is the lotus or indian position?

Oh my god...*spasm* You are one interesting person Ninja

I just noticed, this thread has over 10k views and is barely onto it's second page.... wonder what everyone who read this topic is doing?

Originally Posted by Avalanche

OK, I'm and definitely listening now thanks to those last two posts.

But I will need a more detailed instruction list, those steps to me were a little vague, as I don't do much meditation. The only meditation I do is when I try to WILD, which I know isn't even meditation.

Could you maybe go over the positions in more detail and what I basically have to do please?
Such as can I put my legs up against a wall when I keep them up straight?
And what exactly is the lotus or indian position?

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I was going to respond to this thread ages ago but I never did. Anyway, this method is great, I gave it a try a few weeks ago and it was a nice result.

Originally Posted by Avalanche

OK, I'm and definitely listening now thanks to those last two posts.

But I will need a more detailed instruction list, those steps to me were a little vague, as I don't do much meditation. The only meditation I do is when I try to WILD, which I know isn't even meditation.

Could you maybe go over the positions in more detail and what I basically have to do please?
Such as can I put my legs up against a wall when I keep them up straight?
And what exactly is the lotus or indian position?

This is the lotus position.

Ah, I see, for me that is the "basic" meditation position lol.

I will try it once I get a few more details from ninja, or once someone else clarifies a few things for a meditation-dumbass like myself.

This thread...is so wrong yet so right.

I still has to work though- I mean right now we are discussing proper "hands free fapping".

Whether this really actually works or is just some funny tingling is still to be proven.

We have one guy who said it worked, but for me I need a 2nd opinion.
Still going for it though.

Is there anyone else in this thread?
How long does it take to finally get it right? 5 sessions? More? And how long should the final step take to work?

Would this allow me to experience multiple orgasms or one prolonged orgasm? Or can it be both? Because I did some research on tantric sex meditation and all I can find is information on multiple orgasms.

Originally Posted by Avalanche

Is there anyone else in this thread?
How long does it take to finally get it right? 5 sessions? More? And how long should the final step take to work?

It depends on you. Depends on a lot of factors too, your minds ability to control your semiconscious reactions. Depends on how sexually liberal you are. I got a mental orgasm after about 4 or 5 tries, but I'm very sexual.

Originally Posted by BeeClock

Would this allow me to experience multiple orgasms or one prolonged orgasm? Or can it be both? Because I did some research on tantric sex meditation and all I can find is information on multiple orgasms.

Both. Men can ejaculate once (maybe twice when young) but you can orgasm a bunch of times. They will be much longer, but can happen several times in a row. I've had really long ones and spurts of dozens. Both are amazing.

Ok, at first I wasn't too convinced that this wasn't a troll thread or something, but now I believe you guys.

But I still need some clarification. First off, I'm not really sure if I am flexing the right muscle. It does feel in between the balls and ass, but then again I'm not sure if it isn't either one I'm doing by accident.
Also how long would it take to finish in the one session? 15 minutes? An hour? If there is no average time, then how long does it take you?

It tends to take me about half and hour, first times take longer. And yes, sounds like you are flexing the right muscle, it should be the one that convulses when you have a normal orgasm.

Would a way to strengthen this muscle (and to help identify it) be to drink a lot before bed, and hold it in all night? That way the muscle is used to hold in the liquid all night, which is a way to strengthen it? Or maybe when you go to the bathroom, don't just let is all go, try to periodically stop the stream then let it go again, on/off, on/off?

Btw I think it is getting stronger, or at least I'm getting better and focusing on it and flexing it, as I feel like it's a little ball right where you say it is when I flex it. I think I'll give it a proper try tonight- not that you really wanted to know lol.

I'm not sure if drinking a lot will strengthen it. But flexing it a lot will.

Flexing it is.

Also one more thing, sometimes when I try to flex it I can't seem to find it, or I feel like I'm flexing the wrong thing. When I sit upright in my computer chair, I can find it easily enough, but when I lay in bed or sit in any other position (or in a different chair) I can't seem to be able to find it.

Will normal orgasms strengthen it?

Also I'm wondering if this will effect dreams. Abstaining from masturbation and sex increases the frequency of erotic dreams and as a result lucidity, and from what I understand has to do with the buildup of sperm and hormones (correct me if I'm wrong). However, that is hard for some people. Would this allow you to keep orgasming, but keep your hormones building up to cause sexual dreams at the same time?

Well I tried this earlier. Just gave it a shot, on my bed, when I got home after school. My light was on and had most of my clothes on though, and I didn't have my legs up for the length of time you suggest, nor did I do the breathing thing first all the way. Still, after a bit I think I nearly did something, but to not get too graphic, all in all, not much happened.

I will give it another shot tonight or something, I can see this working.
Hope you all don't mind my fapping updates.

lol, no you can keep updating

Well in that case I have been trying to strengthen the correct muscle for a while now, but I'm still not 100% sure it's the right one. When I go to the bathroom I do what was suggested and stop the stream for as long as I can hold it and then let it go, as this is the same muscle I need to be flexing right?

Also you said you once orgasmed for 20mins- is that true?

Awesome idea. I've always been curious about this but never found a tutorial on it until now...

Btw, the Pubococcygeus muscle controls urine flow and contracts during orgasm.

PS~For women, they are contracting the perineal muscles, exercises which are popularly known as kegels.

Glad you like it

It hasn't worked yet for me though...

Is there anything else I can do to help it along, like before I start the exercises?

this was amazing I didn't know I could have an orgasm that lasted more then a few seconds would you suggest using this before or after having sex?