Okay, your iPod should be a device that says "iPod" or whatever you named it, it should be in "My Computer" if its plugged in, but if it isn't showing up then there may be some problems in terms of connection and you may need to solve the problem using the iPod itself which is not too hard.
Let me know if you can find the iPod device, if you can, double click it and enter the device, just like you'd double click "My Documents" to view your documents.
I'll be here every step of the way

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