Hi there,
Most of my lucid dreams start from my bed (after wild). Normally I begin to feel vibrations, my legs and my harms move alone, noises and so on..... Then I'm in my bed. I know I'm dreaming and I get off bed. The problem is that often I'm in the dark and I'm not able to light the dream. Last night instead a worse thing happened: Started in the bed, vibration and so on....I'm not able to get off bed. I try to move but its like if a magnet is keeping me. I feel that the dream is fading and I don't move, eyes closed. I do like a DEILD and re-enter in the dream, again in the bed. This happened 10-15 times until I woke up giving up. What I liked of all this is the fact that I was able to stay steady and try deilds, but in fact I wasn't able to build my lucid dreaming.

Any suggestion for : 1) The dark problem 2) The impossibility of starting the dream.

PP: After a couple of hours I hade a pretty nice lucid dreaming with sun