Thread: I have perfect control of my dreams and want to try and share it with you

It's the same with me.
When I have a lucid dream everything is easy for me because I know that my dream is ME. My thoughts. Nothing else.
I control people in my dreams, I'm playing god sometimes, or an angel, I move objects and so.... It's magic =)

And the weird thing is that i think the same for the Real Life... Its only my thoughts. (like they said in the move the secret.)

I have the same as you, but I have complete control over my dreams every night. I have has this for the past 5 years. I developed it so I could end a streak of nightmares by killing what was chasing me. After that point, I no longer have that dream. From that point on, I have never had a normal dream. I only have dreams where I can do impossible things, such as imagining guns in my hands, and they appear. This has almost become a burden to me, as I never get a good sleep. My dreams tried to trap me last night, by making super realistic environments of my room while I forced myself to wake up still in the dream. I wanted to share my experiences with you, and say that having more control of your dreams than lucid dreaming is not always fun.

I can control the atmosphere, landscape, scenario, and people that are involved. Plus the reason they(we) are there. Conversations and responses. I have once completely made the landscape blank and all characters stand still just to kick out someone I did not want in the dream.. I haven't heard of anyone being able to do all this exactly... It does take practice an I am pretty proud of myself to be able to do this on a regular basis...am I the only one in THIS MUCH control??

Originally Posted by The Cusp

I pretty much agree with everything your said in that last post.



Four!?!?!? Four remembered lucid dreams and you're claiming perfect control? That's like me only ever shooting one basket ball into the net, just one time, then claiming I never miss. I hope for your sake your streak keeps up, but I seriously doubt you'll be able to keep up that perfect record.

Here's some examples of some of my failures

-I try to walk on water, looking where I'm going, and sink into the water. I get out, know that everything requires your attention to exist in dreams, so I look up until I can't see the water at my feet. Then I walk and it works. I look down and see a very thin crust of colored ice beneath my feet.

-I want to part some trees like you would tall grass with your hands, but I want to do it telekinetically using my hands. I visualize it happening, fully expect it to, reach out, try.. and instead I get spotlights shooting out of the palms of my hands, like Iron Man's force blasts only spotlights. I figure waving my hands about activated whatever archetype represents "hand powers", and out of everything I consider a hand power, that was the strongest link or connection since I had just watched an animated Iron Man movie.

-I'm flying using swimming physics, a common default flying mode because the only archetypal structure representing movement we have actual experience with while stretched out horizontally is swimming. I fly out over a river and suddenly lose my ability to fly and crash into the water. I figure my swimming physics and the water are so closely related they just kind of snapped together like magnets.

Unexpected stuff happens no matter how good you are.

The only dreams I remember n have Im in control, had strange one once were seemed like on some kind of beach at night but the sky was like nothing iv seen n I was running at high speeds, not super hero film fast but faster than human speed and was my chest was deep breathing but wasnt out of breath and jump over dunes n rocks with percision.

Hi Nox12,

I have same experience as you and I'm completely agree that we can control our dreams and everything that happens only happened because we expected this. I have even more interesting experience in my dreams. Have you tried to control moving any objects in the dream. I have tried several times but could not manage this. Hence I can control fully my body e.g. fly, run fast, jump very high whatever but I can not control objects around me, I can predict what happens next with objects and surrounding because of expectations. I was very expected to move objects in the dream because I believe that it possible only in dreams. But, unfortunently I could not manage yet to do this. I don't know why.... Have you had such experience in your dreams? Have you ever control any objects in the dream, e.g. moving them without touching just by your thoughts?

and one more thing, do you know can we travel in the dreams to other people dreams. Once I had dream that I was not in main role and I knew that it's not mine dream but my syster's dream. I was very disappoint in the dream that I'm in somebodie's dream not in mine. On the next day I asked my syster and she said that i was in her dream but the content of dream of cause was different. I don't know how but I believe that we can come to dreams of other people. If somebody already has such experience it would interesting to know....

You have just described very simple control, which is not rare at all.

Originally Posted by Tntx210

am I the only one in THIS MUCH control??

Lol. No.

Also, cool necro, bro.

I'm a natural LDer and I do this to. My main problem is I'm a expert at mind control but I can't change the environment.

Originally Posted by Nox12

I recently discovered that what I have is actually rather unique, because on looking around the Internet, I can't find anyone with as complete control as I have.

I rarely have lucid dreams, or at least not ones that I remember. Only perhaps once every two or three months. However, when I do get them, I have complete control, which I realise now is super rare. I have never had anything I want in a dream rejected. And I have never done anything particularly special to get lucid dreams or to get control, it just happened naturally.

And the reason why I'm telling you this is because I believe perhaps I can share it with you. That's because I think I know why this happens to me and so few others. You see, I genuinely believe that in dreams, everything that happens only happens because you are expecting it to happen.

Read my profile. I have had total control of my dreams every night for decades. I to have tried to connect with people during a dream with no success. I would try to pass some piece of information to them to prove it. It never worked. I was trying to find out if dreams our only in the mind of the individual or something more. So far I suspect it is only in the mind of the individual. I've heard from others that have claimed to have done it, plus a bunch of other outrages things. I doubt them to be really true based on my years of experience. I have yet to truly find another individual at my level of control. It is just second nature to me now. That is why I usually just "Free Dream". Because after decades of Total Dream Control I was getting bored and wanted to learn where the dream would take me on it's own with little to no interference from me.

Originally Posted by EricinLA

Read my profile. I have had total control of my dreams every night for decades. I to have tried to connect with people during a dream with no success. I would try to pass some piece of information to them to prove it. It never worked. I was trying to find out if dreams our only in the mind of the individual or something more. So far I suspect it is only in the mind of the individual. I've heard from others that have claimed to have done it, plus a bunch of other outrages things. I doubt them to be really true based on my years of experience. I have yet to truly find another individual at my level of control. It is just second nature to me now. That is why I usually just "Free Dream". Because after decades of Total Dream Control I was getting bored and wanted to learn where the dream would take me on it's own with little to no interference from me.

So you were just born with the ability to Lucid Dream every night? You're a natural? The reason Ive asked is because Im trying to study the mindset of natural Lucid Dreamers. There must be some secret in how you guys Lucid Dream every night without even trying, and without any day work, its amazing. Kinda off topic, I know my bad

Originally Posted by OneUpBoy71

So you were just born with the ability to Lucid Dream every night? You're a natural? The reason Ive asked is because Im trying to study the mindset of natural Lucid Dreamers. There must be some secret in how you guys Lucid Dream every night without even trying, and without any day work, its amazing. Kinda off topic, I know my bad

I started to Lucid Dream over 35 years ago and slowly gained Control and used tricks I figured out like everyone else to try to keep control in the beginning. But eventually I didn't need the tricks anymore. Control just became second nature. I've talked to a few others here that have pretty decent control. It seems like we have one thing in common. The ability to Calm our Minds and go to sleep very quickly. Plus at least for myself I also have the ability to focus and see things clearly when other can't. I did learn on my own and figured out how to do Total Control at will when I want. But it did take years of practice until it became easy. Practice makes perfect as they always say. Maybe that will help you.

Originally Posted by EricinLA

I started to Lucid Dream over 35 years ago and slowly gained Control and used tricks I figured out like everyone else to try to keep control in the beginning. But eventually I didn't need the tricks anymore. Control just became second nature. I've talked to a few others here that have pretty decent control. It seems like we have one thing in common. The ability to Calm our Minds and go to sleep very quickly. Plus at least for myself I also have the ability to focus and see things clearly when other can't. I did learn on my own and figured out how to do Total Control at will when I want. But it did take years of practice until it became easy. Practice makes perfect as they always say. Maybe that will help you.

Thanks EricinLA, thats very helpful advice. Im good with visualizing and calming my mind, but not the "getting to sleep quickly" part. I will practice more. And yes, with practice maybe one day I might be as good as you are. But I have one last question, since you have really good control of your dreams, what is the longest amount of time you have stayed in a single lucid dream? Can you control time to where it feels like youre in the dream for days or even longer? Just curious and thanks again.

Originally Posted by OneUpBoy71

Thanks EricinLA, thats very helpful advice. Im good with visualizing and calming my mind, but not the "getting to sleep quickly" part. I will practice more. And yes, with practice maybe one day I might be as good as you are. But I have one last question, since you have really good control of your dreams, what is the longest amount of time you have stayed in a single lucid dream? Can you control time to where it feels like youre in the dream for days or even longer? Just curious and thanks again.

That is a hard one to answer. Because as most of us that are here have realized that "Dream Time" and "Real Time" is not the same. I now have a clock that project the time on the ceiling above me so I can try to keep track. I swear in the hour or 2 before I actually have to get up for work I have had some really long "Dream Time" Dreams. I looked at the clock after coming back from the bathroom one time above me and then had a dream that seemed to have lasted over a day. But my alarm went off and I noted the clock. Only 35 min had past. I still find that really amazing. I just assume our minds can work really fast when not hindered by our physical bodies. Also I have had dreams that seemed to go on for days, but of course it was within a few hours of sleep time. Our Brain is amazing.