Thread: Getting Fired for Having Kinky Sex

Hi Molly,
My take on dreams is different than many others. If you'd like to check out what I've learnt from my dreams, then go to a free website I created "http://learningfrommydreams.com/" where I outline the 10 things I've learnt from my dreams, there's a dream discussion paper and a story I created to try to explain about the multiverse we live in.

If, after looking at this, you want me to assist you, then here's what I'd like you to do...

Take two of your dreams. Then, for each one...

What I've learnt from my own dreams is that there is nothing in a dream by chance. Therefore, if you answer the following questions, to the best of your recall ability, I will happily give you an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.

First tell me the number of scenes in your dream. THEN FOR EACH SCENE I want you to tell me the following:

Location:
I want you to look in your mind, as the observer, in the following directions and tell me what you see:
1. To your left.
2. To your right.
3. In front of you.
4. Behind you.
5. Above you.
6. Below you.

It’s all right if you can’t recall much. Simply tell me what you see and make sure I know what direction it is from you the dreamer. In my interpretation, you’ll see how this is a symbol itself.

When you are describing what you see, tell me in as much detail as you can recall about it. So things I am very interested in is what are walls, doors, windows, stairs, tables, etc. made of, age/style, colour, etc. The same goes for anything outside. You’ll see in my interpretations how all of this tells us lots about ourselves.

Lighting:
1. Tell me what the lighting was like, i.e. bright, dull, black, cloudy etc.
2. Then tell me where the light was coming from.
3. Can you tell the time of day or season?
Lighting is important in a dream because it’s a symbol of vibrational state. I’ll explain this during my interpretation for you.

Objects:
If there are any objects in a dream scene, then tell me about them as follows:
1. Shape, size, colour and what they were made of.
2. Where the object is in the dream relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc.

I’ve found objects in dreams are usually symbols of things we first need to concentrate on spiritually. I’ll explain this in the interpretation if you had any objects in any of the scenes.

People:
For each person in a dream scene I want you to do the following:
1. Describe them to me in as much detail as you can recall. This includes age, gender, clothes, colour of the clothes, what the clothes were made of.
2. Tell me where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, below, etc.
3. Tell me if they were lying down, sitting, standing, walking, etc.
4. Tell me what they did with you. Don’t skip the details. Simply tell me exactly what happened.
5. If there are any conversations or thoughts between you and the person or others, then tell me EXACTLY WHAT WAS SAID. This is important.
6. If there were others you couldn’t see but felt, then let me know where you felt they were in a scene relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, etc.
7. For people who you know in real life, tell me anything that's different about them in the dream versus the real life version.

Animals. Etc.:
If there were any animals, insects, birds, reptiles, fish or whatever in any of the scenes, then tell me. Describe them in as great as detail as you can recall. Also let me know where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc. Then let me know of any thoughts that passed between you and them.

Thoughts/Feelings:
This is a very important part of every dream scene. Take your time, go back and tell me the following for each scene:
1. What was your first thought/feeling as the dream scene began.
2. Tell me of any thoughts/feeling changes as the dream scene progressed and let me know where in the scene this occurred.
3. Tell me your last thought/feeling as the dream ended.

I realize this is a lot of work. HOWEVER, I think you might be surprised by how much you can learn about yourself from a single scene.

With kind regards,
Guy

PS your position when you were having sex in your dreams is important (in the dream paper I talk about this). So, please let me know if you were standing, lying down, etc.

Hello Guy!
Thank you for replying. I find your website very interesting and have been reading your dream interpretation paper and will continue to do so. I will try to use this technique to remember my next dreams.
I rarely remember my dreams. I usually only remember my dreams if I am experiencing some sort of emotional change such as anxiety/depression/stress/insomnia ect. Which ironically causes me to feel more anxiety!
I used to remember my dreams a lot when I was younger to the point that it was boring.
I would like to learn more about dreaming.

That was all the information/details I could remember about last night's dream. I do however remember the position. I was on my hands and knees for the most part and the two women were performing oral sex behind me. We seemed to be up higher than the man who was filming. Like on a high table or a shelf even. It seemed like we were in the same room as the party/gathering but it felt like no one else was there. No one said anything. My boss wasn't there until the apparent "next day".

What's strange to me is that the sex is always different...different people...different places but the outcome is always the same. My boss finds out and I get fired. I almost want to have a similar dream just so I can compare now.

I'm going to try to use some of your tips tomorrow morning tto see if I can remember more details of my next dream.

Hi Molly,
Thanks for the reply. I will take a stab at interpreting your dream such that you can see how I work. I will write it as if you haven’t read my dream interpretation paper. This way, you’ll see how I work and then be able to reference it back to the paper. At the end of this interpretation, I’ll give you some thoughts for you going forward.

Below is my interpretation of your dream as if it was mine. Dreams are for each of us to interpret on our own. Therefore, if anything I say below doesn’t resonate with you, then simply discard it. So with that said, off I go…

When I do my own interpretations or that of others, I always start with the location. I could have located it anywhere, at any time in any reality and…I’ve located it here. I’ve learnt that locations help to “spiritually frame in” a dream.

I will take the first of several sidebars here to help you understand the framework I use when interpreting a dream. This one will cover what I’ve learned about beliefs, belief compartments, people and the age of people. Then I’ll return to myself in the dream location.

In my dreams, things that are made by people are symbols of masculine and things of nature are symbols of feminine. I’ve learnt that before we incarnate, we carefully select the times we will live in, our families, life circumstances, challenges and potential exit points. We then carefully select our personality.

I’ve learnt we do this by selecting approximately 200 different “belief filters”. These are energy filters that have two polarities, a feminine one and a masculine one. We select the degree of polarity we are going to hold the belief, i.e. the degree of feminine or masculine. This then determines the belief vibratory level.

Each belief then works with the other beliefs, each with their own vibratory rate. They literally “filter our reality” by blocking out the greater reality vibrations we actually come from. They create the aura around us and create our thoughts/feelings for each moment.

We constantly tell ourselves about this in our dreams. We use symbolism to show ourselves about the beliefs and their limiting effects on us spiritually. We also show ourselves the “dis-ease’ created by some of our beliefs using colours in our dreams.

In my dreams buildings are symbols of what I call ‘belief compartments’. I’ve learnt that each wall is a symbol of a belief. Furniture within them are symbols of yet more beliefs that work with the overall beliefs to produce what I call are ‘belief effects’.

To symbolize to ourselves the many different types of beliefs we use in all our many lives, we often create our dreams in towns, cities or houses.

I’ve often found that in many of my dreams, people appear in the rooms or buildings. When I first began to record my dreams, many years ago, I frequently found myself in large warehouses full of boxes I had to climb over or in rooms in houses full of furniture. Imagine my surprise when I eventually learnt they boxes and furniture were symbols of masculine based beliefs I had to address first before I got to the walls!

As I spiritually listened to myself, over time, the rooms began to empty. Then I was walking through empty rooms. The next step was to see glass walls, windows and open doors, all symbols of how I was beginning to work my way out of the old belief walls. Then the walls began to disappear. In the end, I was usually flying over the old beliefs.

In many of my dreams when I began to keep a record of my dreams,, I would find myself in multi-storied houses. I then realized these are symbols of numerous belief compartments I use in one or more of my lives.

Then I found myself in towns and cities. I then realized that each one is a symbol of various belief compartments I have used in another life.

I will take another sidebar here and describe what I’ve learnt about people in my dreams…

When I first began recording my dreams, I would often find people in my dreams that I didn’t know or ones that I did know but they were doing strange things. When I tried to literally interpret my dreams, it usually didn’t work.

I had a near death experience 12 years ago that changed me. One of the changes was a determination to learn to meditate. I had stopped and started meditation all my life and had in effect gone nowhere in a hurry. So this time I was determined to stick with it.

I slowly learnt how to touch my “higher self”. One day, the thought came to me to use my higher self to assist me in interpreting my dreams. Then the dream gates swung wide open.

I’ve since learnt that people in my dreams may be who they are, symbols of my masculine and feminine, other lives, teachers, guides, oversoul, aspects of myself, people who I frequently incarnate with, etc.

When I first began to record my dreams I frequently began to see an old couple. They might change their appearance but there was almost always an old man and woman in the dream. Then a young girl and by appeared.

They too sometimes changed but they were now in the same dream as the old couple. However, they were “bit players” in my dreams as the old couple was the ones I was interacting with.

At first, I had no idea who these people were. Then, as I learnt to mediate and apply my higher self to my dream interpretations, my dreams gates swung open.

First, I learnt that the old man and women were symbols of my masculine and feminine. Next, I learnt that the young girl and boy were symbols of the feminine and masculine I could become. So I then used the terms “old masculine and feminine” and “young masculine and feminine” to describe these dream symbols to myself.

As I began to address my underlying beliefs, the old couple disappeared from my dreams and the young ones spiritually grew up.

I’ve learnt that people’s age in dreams is important.

When infants are in my dreams as other lives, this is usually a symbol we are just beginning our journey through the beliefs the dream is about.

When teenagers show up I realize I am making steady progress through my dreams.

When mature adults show up, it’s a sign that I am now spiritually maturing in dealing with the beliefs.

When old people show up in my dreams, I let out a sound of joy! It’s a sign that I am now ready to release the old beliefs.

I then learnt that things made out of natural materials are symbols of feminine beliefs that are now no longer working for me. In effect, spiritually speaking, they are now “dead” for me, i.e. dead trees – wood, etc. So, whenever I am in rooms made of wood or standing on wood, etc. I refer to this in my mind as “dead feminine”.

About a year and a half ago, I felt compelled to put together a free website documenting what I have learnt. At first, I didn’t want to because I felt what I had learnt was akin in my mind to a teaspoon of water compared to all the oceans’ water, i.e. not much. However the feeling persisted.

Today if you go to ‘learningfrommydreams’ dot com you’ll see what I created. If you go there, I suggest you look at 3 things. One is the meditation page where I list all sorts of different ways to meditate. Find one that works for you.

Then I recommend you read the dream discussion paper I posted on the website. It describes the symbolism I’ve learnt including people.

I recommend you look at the resources page where you’ll find an extensive list of things to look at.

Lastly, I want to make a note that we are the producers, directors, script writers and often main actors in our dreams. Therefore, there is nothing in our dreams by chance. It’s a language to teach ourselves about ourselves.

So with this said, back to my dream…

The first thing I note is that I am inside. When I am outside in a dream, it’s usually what I call a “teaching dream” as opposed to when I am inside something it’s what I call a “learning dream”. So what’s the difference?

When I am inside belief compartments, the belief walls effectively isolate me from my higher self. I am therefore usually learning on my own. As I progress, windows appear and then slowly walls disappear…all part of a learning process.

When I am outside, there are no belief walls constricting me. My higher self and others can then instruct me. That’s why I call it a “teaching dream”. So, in this first scene I am in a “learning dream”.

Then I consider the actual location, “It was a huge house or hotel of some sort with many floors and rooms. There was a large swimming pool. The kind you would see at a holiday resort. It had one of those swim up bars in it. The pool seemed to be indoors. “

When I am in a hotel of some sort, it’s usually a symbol in my dreams of beliefs that I and my many other lives have used repeatedly in our lives. Each room, i.e. masculine based belief compartment, is something we “check into and use” in our lives. Then at the end, we check out.

There are many floors. In my dreams Molly, I use elevation to depict vibrational differences between the different beliefs I use. The floors are symbols of different vibrational levels. On each “floor”, there are many belief compartments that have similar vibrational frequency.

“There was a large swimming pool. It had one of those swim up bars in it. The pool seemed to be indoors.”

I’ve learnt from my own dreams that water is a major symbol of my feminine. When I find myself alongside people mad canals or at swimming pools, these are all symbols of masculine based beliefs that is containing my feminine, i.e. not allowing it to flow freely.

So, right away I now know that this dream has something to do with a group of masculine based beliefs I’ve come to call “command/control”. I’ve learnt that these beliefs are effectively afraid of my feminine. As a result, I build spiritual, mental and physical walls around myself to protect myself from my feminine.

In many of my dreams about command/control, there is usually one of more people/entities playing the part of a “controller” and others playing the part of a “controlee.” I have played each part many, many, many times in my other lives.

So there I am, in a large masculine based belief compartment with my feminine contained by yet more masculine based beliefs and I’m indoors trying to learn about this.

“I remember feeling a little drunk/high but don't remember seeing myself take anything. I went to a freezer a grabbed three 1kg bags of giant prawns and asked if I could buy them. My boss seemed upset so I decided to buy just one bag. The barman said he would save it for me in the freezer. “

Okay, so who are the people? Is my boss herself or, is she a symbol? She’s a symbol of my old feminine.

“I remember feeling a little drunk/high but don't remember seeing myself take anything.” Recall that in my dream I am the producer, director, scriptwriter and often main actor. There is nothing in my dream by chance.

So why am I feeling high from a drug? It’s because I am spiritually addicted to these old masculine based beliefs.

“I went to a freezer a grabbed three 1kg bags of giant prawns and asked if I could buy them. “ Why am I doing this?

I’ve learnt there are many “belief effects” of command/control beliefs. One of them is the use of money. Money is a way to control people. I’m not saying it is right or wrong or good or bad. It simply is what it is.

So, I am going to try to buy something form someone who controls something, i.e. I am the controlee in this dream and others are the controllers.

I am buying three bags of 1kg prawns. Not 1, 2 or 4 bags but 3. Why three? Why 1kg weight and not some other weight? I will take a side bar here and tell you what I’ve learnt about numbers in my dreams and then return to the number 1 and 3.

When I first began to interpret dreams I though numerology was some fluffy thing people did. Then I learnt that it’s not “fluffy” because my dreams and those of others are full of it. It’s a way of sending us messages about ourselves. Numbers are part of the multiverse we live in.

I have my own theory about numerology in dreams. It doesn’t matter which reference or approach a dreamer takes to interpret it AS LONG AS THEY USE A WAY THAT RESONATES WITHIN THEM. I think that once the dreamer has their own numerology frame of reference, the dreams are arranged to convey to the dreamer the messages using their frame of reference.

For myself, I use “Angel Numbers – Joanne Sacred Scribes” (Google it). Here’s what she says for the number 1 and 3…

Number 1 resonates with the vibrations and attributes of new beginnings, creation, independence, uniqueness, motivation, striving forward and progress, ambition and will power, positivity and positiveness, the energies of pioneering, raw energy, force, activity, self-leadership and assertiveness, initiative, instinct and intuition, the masculine attributes, organization, achievement and success, strength and self-reliance, tenacity, forcefulness and authority, love, inspiration, attainment, glory, happiness, fame, fulfilment and omniscience, and creating your own realities.

Angel Number 1 is a reminder from your angels that we are all connected and we are all associated by our thoughts.
Angel Number 1 asks you to be aware of your thoughts and focus upon your true heart’s desires so that they are able to positively manifest your desires into your life. Do not focus on your fears and what you don’t want as these can also manifest.

Angel Number 1 encourages you to look to new beginnings, opportunities and projects with a positive and optimistic attitude as these are appearing in your life for very good reason. Your angels want you to achieve and succeed with your desired goals and aspirations so do not hesitate in taking positive steps and striving forward. Do not allow fears, doubts or concerns to hold you back from living and serving your Divine life purpose and soul mission.

Angel Number 1 also encourages you to take up challenges with total faith and trust in yourself and the Universal Energies.

Number 3 carries the vibrations of communication and self-expression, adventure, inspiration and creativity, humour, optimism and joy, spontaneity and enthusiasm. Number 3 also symbolizes the principle of increase and growth, expansion and abundance on the mental, emotional, financial and spiritual levels. Number 3 is the number of manifesting and manifestation and carries the vibration of the Ascended Masters. The Ascended Masters help you to focus on the Divine spark within yourself and others, and assist with manifesting your desires. They are helping you to find peace, clarity and love within.

Angel Number 3 is an indication that your angels are trying to get your attention. The angels and Ascended Masters want you to follow your intuition and inner-wisdom so that you are able to take appropriate action/s at this time. Use your creative skills and abilities to manifest your desires and enhance your life and that of others. The angels encourage you to follow your life path and soul mission with optimism and enthusiasm.

When Angel Number 3 appears it suggests that your prayers and positive affirmations have been heard and are being responded to by the Universal Energies. Have faith that your goals and desires will manifest in your life in Divine right time. Trust your personal skills and talents and the love and support from the angels.

Angel Number 3 encourages you to be communicative and social with others and to live your life with joy, optimism and spontaneity

Thanks dear over soul for sending me these wonderful messages that got through my belief filters!!!!!

So why frozen prawns? They are symbols of my frozen feminine. So I am using command/control beliefs to spiritually kill my feminine and put it on ice so to speak, while also using command/control to show who has access to it.

“My boss seemed upset so I decided to buy just one bag. The barman said he would save it for me in the freezer.”

So my old feminine is upset that I am now beginning to spiritually wake up to release some of my old beliefs. So, she, i.e. “I”, am trying to control my feminine.

Who is the barman? He’s another life who also shares the same underlying beliefs I do. When my other lives show up in my dreams they are doing it for three reasons.

One is to show me that they too share the same underlying beliefs this dream scene is about. Second, they are showing me that they are spiritually working with me on the shared beliefs. Third, the clothing that they wear is a symbol of some of the underlying beliefs we both share.

I can’t recall what the barman was wearing or the colours of his clothes. However, I will tell you what I’ve learnt about clothes and colours as reference for your future dreams.

In my old dreams, I frequently was in places nude and would panic that others would see me (I’m sure readers of this interpretation will have had similar dreams). I was always wanting to get dressed or hide away.

Imagine my surprise when I learnt that clothes are symbols of beliefs we “spiritually wear”. I then have learnt that being nude in a dream is a sign of spiritual progress regarding the beliefs the dream is about.

We are beings where we are both feminine and masculine. We live many, many lives as either sex, sometimes hermaphrodite, gay, whatever. Yet in the world we live in today, being nude is considered somewhat of a “sin”.

So, today, I always rejoice when I am partially nude or wholly nude in a dream. This also applies to footwear.

I’ve learnt as I make spiritual progress regarding a set of beliefs, frequently I am barefoot. Shoes are a way of symbolizing beliefs we use to separate ourselves from our feminine, i.e. ground we walk upon.

I have learnt that colours in my dreams are very important. They are symbols of how the beliefs affect different points on my etheric and physical body. The old Hindi’s of thousand of years ago saw three energies swirling into our bodies at several points they called “chakras”. Then they mapped 70,000 different smaller points they called “Nadis”. This then grew to 100,000 points. It was and is an amazing piece of work.

Since I can only see the first 6 inches or so of an aura around a person and I’m not yet able to see chakras, I use this reference for colours and general body location points “The Chakras” by David Leadbeater. You can find free copies of it online.

I find that this is the best reference I can find to date about colours but the colours in my dreams usually go beyond what I find in David’s reference

So back to my dream…

The barman is going to keep a symbol of a frozen feminine belief on ice for me, i.e. in the freezer. I can spiritually come back and get it. This is what I call leaving a yellow spiritual sticky note to myself. What do I mean by this?

Often times, I am in a dream where I don’t want to face a belief or beliefs. I turn away, walk away, run away, try to escape or wake up. This is like waving a giant flag in front of myself saying “Hey me! Now I know about this belief. I’m not yet ready to face myself. I will return when I am spiritually ready to do so,” – just like leaving a yellow sticky reminder note to ourselves in “real life”.

So back to my dream…

“This time there were a few coworkers there. My boss and her family.” So, are my coworkers and her family themselves or, are they symbols? They’re themselves. They too share the same underlying beliefs that this dream is about. They too are spiritually working with me on them.

“The middle is a bit of a blur. I remember just exploring the building but I don't remember what I did, who I was with or what I said. I remember going to what seemed to be the top of the building and it had about 5 or 6 beach volleyball/tennis courts up there. “

So, I am beginning to more consciously explore my spiritual belief compartments! That’s good news. I also go to the top of the large collection of belief compartments. What do I find? Open air.

In my dreams, when I am in large sets of masculine based belief compartments, there is a maximum vibration achievable within the beliefs. I usually depict this to myself by showing myself the top floor of the building. Often it has large windows showing me the greater reality outside I need to go to raise my vibrations.

In this dream, I am showing myself that I am no longer surrounded by masculine belief walls. I am in the open air, i.e. outside in my greater reality. HOWEVER, there is still the masculine based belief floor that is spiritually supporting me. AND, there’s also 5or 6 symbols of yet more command/control beliefs, i.e. competition related sports. Instead of collaboration, i.e. feminine, I am showing myself some of the masculine based belief effects, i.e. winners and losers.

“I was feeling more and more "drunk". Everything becomes a blur. “ My spiritual addiction to the beliefs of this dream are very strong.

“Then there were 3 strangers. A male and 2 females. All around the same age as me. The male seemed to be in charge. He had a camera or phone. Either way, he was filming. I felt completely out of control. I was just there and he was telling the 2 females what to do. “

These are some of my other lives, as addicted as I am to the command/control beliefs. The age of the participants is revealing. As note earlier, the age of the participants relates to the time I am at in spiritually releasing the old beliefs the dream scene is about. So, I have a long way to go to spiritually release these beliefs I am “in love with”.

The male other life “seemed to be in charge.” So this is yet another way of letting myself know that my command/control beliefs affect my surface level beliefs of masculine, feminine, gender, sex, roles and relationships.

“He had a camera or phone. Either way, he was filming.” Whenever phones, cameras, computers or TV’s show up in my dreams, I realize two things. One is that I am using old masculine based beliefs to communicate. Second, these beliefs are restricting my feminine to spiritually communicate, i.e. it’s a feminine attribute.

I’ve also learnt that this is another way of getting myself to recall the dream, i.e. filming myself in my dream. It worked!!!!

“I felt completely out of control. I was just there and he was telling the 2 females what to do. “ So my masculine is telling my feminine what to do. This is the heart of this dream and is the main message I am trying to get through to myself.

“As to where we were...it seemed like we were in a small hard place. Like on a table or a shelf. “ So, I am now in a small masculine based belief compartment. Small means the belief walls are now beginning to spiritually hem me in.

“We seemed to be up higher than the man who was filming. Like on a high table or a shelf even. It seemed like we were in the same room as the party/gathering but it felt like no one else was there.”

Molly, when objects show up in my dreams, like symbols of masculine based beliefs, i.e. tables or shelves, this is a message to me to begin work on them first. As I work my way through them, the room will empty.

Then I come to my position. I am on my hands and knees on the table. I will take yet another side bar here and tell you what I’ve learnt about sitting, standing etc. and then return to myself on the table.

When I am lying down in dream, it’s a symbol that I don’t have any spiritual ability yet to even see the effects of some of my beliefs.

When I am sitting, it’s a symbol that I need spiritual support to see the effects of some of my beliefs.

When I am standing, it’s a symbol that I now can stand on my own two spiritual feet to see the effects.

When I am walking, it’s a symbol that I am now steadily moving through the beliefs.

When I am running, it’s a symbol I am moving relatively quickly through the beliefs.

Note that I have found that spiritual time and our time are too different things. Usually my dream time is far faster than my physical time. So when I am running etc. I realize that it still will take “some time”.

Back to the dream…

So I am on my hands and knees, i.e. spiritually beginning to learn to stand on my own two spiritual feet with respect to the beliefs this room and table are symbols of.

Then I am naked! This is excellent! As noted earlier, it shows that I have released some old masculine based beliefs I used to insulate myself from myself.

And now I come to the action of this scene…sex.

“The women started kissing and touching me all over. I couldn't stop it but I also didn't want to. Like I said it was like I wasn't in control of my body. The women were giving me oral sex under the orders or suggestions of the man. Both at the same time. Both genital and anal.”

Sex is a natural part of life. However, it can be addictive too. This dream isn’t about sex per se. It’s about my underlying beliefs about masculine and feminine that I then “translate” into my surface level beliefs.

These are some of my other lives spiritually touching me. I am also addicted to the underlying command/control beliefs. I am out of control spiritually speaking.

“The man took pictures and video. The photos and video were somehow saved on to a computer inside the building.”

So, my masculine based beliefs are controlling my abilities to spiritually communicate. These are effectively trapped within my old masculine based beliefs, i.e. a computer inside the building.

“No one said anything. My boss wasn't there until the apparent "next day". What's strange to me is that the sex is always different...different people...different places but the outcome is always the same. My boss finds out and I get fired.”

It’s my dream about myself. My other lives are patiently acting out their parts waiting for me to spiritually figure it out on my own. That’s why there is no one speaking. Further, my masculine based beliefs are limiting my ability to spiritually communicate with my other lives.

The sex is always different for a couple of reasons. One is for me to remember and recall the dream and then puzzle over the differences – it worked!

The other is to show me how spiritually addicted I am to my current ideas about sex. I don’t mean to say that my ideas are right or wrong. It’s about me understanding inside myself why I am the way I am.

“At the end I grab the prawns from the freezer to leave.” So I am showing myself that I need to begin to recognize the underlying beliefs that are freezing my feminine. However, I don’t want to face myself so I leave a spiritual sticky yellow note to myself, i.e. I go home.

“I end up "back" in the building on which I can only believe to be the next day.

I will take a final brief aside and tell you what I’ve learnt about back, behind, etc. form my dreams and then return to the last scene.

In many, many of my dreams I am looking back, backing up a car, turning around, being told to go back, sitting in a back seat, with rooms or buildings behind me, etc. I’ve slowly learnt that this is a way of telling myself that I need to retrace my steps spiritually speaking and review some of my old underlying beliefs before I can learn new things. It almost always involves me working with some or many of my other lives to see the effects of the beliefs on our lives.

So ‘back” to my dream…

So…I am spiritually retracing my spiritual steps back to the good ol’ masculine based belief compartments I am so spiritually addicted to.

“My boss approaches me and shows me the photos and video. She is furious. She tells me that her teenage daughter found them on the computer. That she is highly disturbed and that I am fired. “

The next day is a way of letting myself know that “in time” I must finally confront my old feminine. She, i.e. “I” likes maintaining control over my feminine. As I learn about myself spiritually my old beliefs will feel more threatened.

So my old feminine approaches showing me symbols of myself enjoying myself and slowly discovering who I really am spiritually. She’s disgusted, i.e. “I” am disgusted with myself.

Her teenage daughter is a way of letting myself know that I have a long spiritual road in front of me, should I decide to listen to this dream, to release the old beliefs, i.e. I am at the teenager stage.

I am showing myself that until I learn to face myself, my old feminine is in control. So I then fire myself. Part of me really likes the command/control and wants to stop any breaches through the old masculine based belief walls.

Therein lies the choice of this dream. If I choose to, I can use the yellow spiritual sticky pad route and park my dream in my spiritual darkness. OR, I CAN LEARN TO LISTEN TO MYSELF.

Speaking from personal experience, this path is not always easy since one must learn to face oneself BUT IT IS HIGHLY REWARDING.

If I wanted to learn to listen to myself here are some suggestions I could use:
• Learn to listen to my intuition – it’s my spiritual radar
• Keep a dream journal – each night I get a course on myself
• Learn to meditate – this is a way to connect with the greater me

There are many ways one can get in touch with one self…

Meditation is one way. The old Hindi's of 2,500-3,000 years ago wanted to have out of body experiences. They did this by occupying the conscious mind allowing their inner soul to rise. Today, this is called yoga and the OBE portion is mostly an afterthought.

When they were out of their bodies, they saw energy swirling into the body from the sun, from the earth and from the side. They called these main points "chakras". Then they saw that the energy went into small points they called "nadis".

They then did something that amazes me to this day. They mapped 70,000 different Nadi points and then it went up to 100,000.

This knowledge crossed over the Himalayas and went down into China. It became adopted as energy meridian lines. Today acupuncture uses this.

Yoga is simply one of many ways. On * Link Removed * I list several different ways to meditate. You can go there and see if any one of these resonates with you. If so, then give it a try.

Another way is to use the hemi-sync technology that Robert Monroe pioneered to help people get to the theta state and have out of body experiences. You can go to the Monroe Institute to learn more https://www.monroeinstitute.org/. Books Bob wrote can be found here *Removed Link*

Another way is to go to a hypnotist trained by the Newton Institute. This was created by a psychologist Michael Newton. About 30 or so years ago, he had a woman under hypnosis who went to a place she called her "live between lives". He then found out that many of his other patients went to a very similar place. He then write three books and began to train psychologists how to do this. The Newton Institute can be found here The Newton Institute for Life Between Lives Hypnotherapy. On this website is a link to find a local therapist.

To learn about other lives, I suggest reading a fictional trilogy “Over Soul Seven” by Jane Roberts. She was a great channeler who brought through an entity names Seth in the 1970’s. He wrote many books through her. She also wrote some of her own books.

The books I am referring to are a trilogy she wrote to explain, in a simple story form, complex ideas about us incarnating many times, at the same time. It’s an easy read and good way to get one’s mind around the concept of an over soul and many other lives.

The choice is yours to make. I hope that some of what I’ve said above deeply resonates within you.

You have excellent dream recall. Very few people recall their dreams and an even smaller percentage recalls much details about their dreams. So you are one of them.

For what it’s worth, as I wrote this, I “felt” you are a healer. To heal others, first one must learn to heal oneself.

If you choose to listen to yourself, I feel you will have a exciting spiritual life and assist many others along your way.

With kind regards,
Guy

Thank you so much, Guy, for taking the time to share your knowledge with me! I'm going to take some time to reflect on this and read some more of your paper and the other resources you've offered. I think I will start a dream journal for the times that I do remember my dreams.

I was frustrated this morning when I couldn't recall much detail about the dream I had. I knew I had what had seemed like a long continuous dream last night (after being woken up a few times and fallen back to sleep for the same dream to continue). All I could manage to remember was that it wasn't the same "being fired" dream. I was lost in a forest with a bunch of strangers next to a river. I wish I could remember more because I know a lot had happened during the dream. I just couldn't focus enough to remember the details.

Again...I just wanted to say thank you for giving me your time and knowledge. 😊

Hi Molly,
No thanks are required. I too have some nights where I dream the whole night and then wake up recalling...nothing! What I tell people is to not move around when you wake up in the middle of the night or the morning. Before you move your body, try to recall your dreams. You'll find that you will recall many more dreams this way. Then, before you do anything record them. You can use a tape recorder, book or whatever.

If you'd like, I will assist you a bit on your journey. You can reach me at [email protected]. What I'd like you to do is not just send me a dream to interpret. Instead, I'd like you to write out the dream as per my questions. i realize this is long and tedious but it's a good habit to get into because....

I then want you to take a stab at interpreting your dream. Then send it to me. I will then coach you from the side so to speak. The biggest thing you need to do is to be able to connect with your higher self. Otherwise, you are left guessing at who's who in a dream, etc. So...

This leads to meditation. It doesn't matter what method you choose as long as it feels right AND you keep it up day after day, week after week, month after month and year after year.

I do contract project work and am often under lots of pressure. When I am, I simply "reach for myself", discover once again who I am and realize my place in reality. Then I "return" to my work and now I am centred and don't feel the pressure. This same technique can be used in most parts of our lives.

So, don't worry about getting fired. Instead get fired up about yourself!

With kind regards,
Guy

Being fired from my job for having sex.
It's always with my significant other or complete strangers.

Your boss who gets disgusted and fires you must be the part of you wanting to be in charge who knows better.
Is it wanting to connect with your more significant self inside you that is a stranger, that makes it kinky, cringeworthy, yet so exciting?
So can it also be about your relationship with your significant other, who as a result sometimes seems a stranger?


LAST NIGHT'S DREAM

IN CHARGE
Co-workers here for the first time can mean you want to work at this now.
Can the family of your boss refer to your close relationship in view of you being in charge, or maybe being close with other people and as it was a party?
The whole issue seems to ber about that, not being in charge yet.
This giant costly delicacy looks like it's frozen, and the meat of it might amount to a huge 1 or you, just as the pool is inside and also large you can refreshingly dive into with them.

UPSET AT NOT BEING IN CONTROL?
Maybe you were a little out of control, but with a higher view or to feel better about yourself that hasn't happened yet.
Your inner boss was upset you bought only one, you want to save it for others or the social area to make you higher, represented by the barman.
But it's frozen for now or preserved.

BLUR
This could be the blur, exploring how to build this, not knowing how except to reach the top, like the boss is.
And playing with what looks like a lot of groups of people or new relationships.
There was small group team sport, then one on one sport.
But you felt more and more out of control in this area.

CONTROL
This can obviuously shed light on your original dreams, where you were not in control how you want.
And explain the strangers. If the male is the strong part of you wanting to be in charge that is strange now until you get to know it. But you have begun working at it which explains him recording this important vision, to remember it for later, just as the freezer idea. And communication that is now distant, with the new people, like with a phone.
"I felt completely out of control." I wonder if the male might also represent your partner, if you feel he is in control but not you.

BEING CONTROLLED
"He was telling the 2 females what to do." Maybe you feel females are controlled by males too much, but also can be how you want control within, or are unsure about yourself.
So you feel you are in a small hard place, when it comes to interacting with others.
"Like on a table or a shelf." A table is where others sit. A shelf again is this in storage.

NAKED
So you feel naked. Only your assertive character will clothe you, and who is your social side.
Maybe you can relate to women very well, and you want it to be like that with guys. So it's even. Or again it may reflect your guy or a bit. Hence the ladies giving you oral sex can be you wanting to express this more, under guidance of the man. Ok, the anal - warning! Adults Only. Haha - simultaneously might mean you are too anal, frankly. Repressed. Or it could mean other things [Censored]. And your strong side recorded this again, to play later in action.

SAVED
So what you pictured and played in your mind you saved in your mind or thinking to build this up in yourself.
So you want to grab the delicious rare meat of it out the freezer.
But it becomes a blur again when it comes to doing it.
So you saw you have to build it, which takes time and persitance.

FURIOUS
Gosh, then your boss side is furious which might seem like part of you is against it. Maybe scared or resisting it.
You are - highly - disturbed by this higher idea, and you fire yourself! You end the idea.
Or maybe it means you are furious when failing it. Unless there is some context of it that you see is wrong.
Maybe being female you think it is not so right to be so in charge, understandably.
But you woke up at the point you are in this development.

__________
TWO WEEKS
But dreaming this for the past 2 weeks is probably the real clue as to what it is about or the context. It could be feeling out of control in some situation.


OTHER DREAMS

The other couple dreams were similar. Where my boss would somehow find out about me having kinky sex and I would be fired.

This finally explains the kinky sex, if it is you wanting to join with a new part of you where you are boss of yourself. But it makes you cringe.

This was the first one where the act was recorded/filmed.

First time you thought of acting on it.

I was frustrated this morning when I couldn't recall much detail about the dream I had. I knew I had what had seemed like a long continuous dream last night (after being woken up a few times and fallen back to sleep for the same dream to continue). All I could manage to remember was that it wasn't the same "being fired" dream. I was lost in a forest with a bunch of strangers next to a river. I wish I could remember more because I know a lot had happened during the dream. I just couldn't focus enough to remember the details.

Surely this dream was continued from the other, and what you want to act on and become continuously.
But you were lost, perhaps in how to change, couldn't focus enough and it seemed strange, so others did.
Maybe you couldn't find the flow or let life take you in its current this way. That might be why you forgot.
It didn't really happen or you did not choose how you want.