Mem in my dreams are better then my boyfriend

**shotz318** · 01-24-2011 12:23 AM

I really need help with this one.
I've been with my current boyfriend(lets call him bob) for 3 years he loves me and i love him. For the past year things have been going down hill. He treats me now more like an expendable friend the a lover.
For the past year i've been having dreams about other men.
I never know who they are and i never remember there faces when i wake up. Its a different guy in each dream. In each dream the guy makes me feel special and i feel like im the only one he will ever care about. I feel as if he will NEVER let anything happen to me and that i will be happy forever. The dream then gets sexual. If he holds my hand or touches me any where, i feel more pleasure and get more aroused then i ever have in real life. When he starts to take my clothes off, my body goes numb and starts to tingle. When we actually start having sex or "making love" the feeling is unexplainable.
Bob does exist in these dreams and i feel terrible for about 2 seconds then i realize how right this other guy is and forget about Bob.
When i wake up i feel great for about 5 seconds then feel like the worst person on the face of the planet because i feel like i just cheated on Bob.
Im sorry i cant give setting or whats happening because there have been so many and they all VERY different. The only similarity between them is this guy.

I'm looking for any kind of interepretaion of this dream.
Please help

**PunkyRoseBubbles** · 01-24-2011 12:53 AM

I'm not a professional dream interpretor, but I'm guessing that it means "Bob" is not right for you, and that your subconscious knows that and it's trying to tell you through your dreams. Hope this helps!

**mcslurry** · 01-24-2011 01:22 AM

I think that it means you wish your boyfriend was more like these men. It's just you finding the attention you need and deserve where you are not getting it, even though you would not cheat on your boyfriend, you feel like you are not being cared for, and here come these gorgeous men who are willing to wait on you and treat you as a lover. Maybe you should talk to your boyfriend about his behaviour and tell him it is starting to get to you.