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      Tell me how you talk to a girl...

      ...without her thinking you are only after one thing? Down my way, when out, if you talk to a girl, naturally they think you are like any other guy and just want to get in her pants, similarly if you do talk to a girl and like her, and she then wants to get in your pant right away, I can't help but judge her for being too forward/easy....

      Am I alone in feeling like this?

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      No, you aren't. Yeah, there are quite of few like that, not as much as guys like that, though. And I am with you on that one too.
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      Just talk to them like you would talk to any other person... seriously, if they are that paranoid/in defence then it would probably be best for you not to talk to them anyways. I mean, any girl who takes "hi want to go hang out some time" meaning "I want to get inside your pants" well, I'd say she probably isn't worth your trouble.

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      damnit i have a whole thread already dedicated to this sort of thing. check my social dynamics thread. and no, you are not alone.
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      Quote Originally Posted by ataraxis View Post
      Just talk to them like you would talk to any other person... seriously, if they are that paranoid/in defence then it would probably be best for you not to talk to them anyways. I mean, any girl who takes "hi want to go hang out some time" meaning "I want to get inside your pants" well, I'd say she probably isn't worth your trouble.
      Quoted for emphasis.

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      Aye, ataraxis put it meaningfully. The original post is a collection of some sort of stereotypes. But, I can understand them, they're the kind of ideas that are part of a mindframe at earlier ages. Well, earlier teens. Before people really learn the value of caring for others, the value of respect and the meaning self-confidence.
      Before becoming truly...independent, so to speak.

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      Quote Originally Posted by ataraxis View Post
      Just talk to them like you would talk to any other person... seriously, if they are that paranoid/in defence then it would probably be best for you not to talk to them anyways. I mean, any girl who takes "hi want to go hang out some time" meaning "I want to get inside your pants" well, I'd say she probably isn't worth your trouble.
      Ok I'll bite. It is true that some women actually think that every guy wants to sleep with them. I don't blame em as there are some pretty creepy people out there.

      The thing is to ask them Open ended questions. What do you like about living here? are you and artist? (most women do soemthing artistic.) Tell me a joke!

      Basically give them opportunities to reveal their personality. also answer you own questions. When they reveal something unique and interesting about themselves. Reward them for it. "I like your laugh, What's you name?". "wow not only are you sexy but you can hold a very good conversation". At these points where they show something unique, it's ok to say things like "sexy" since you are basing it on something about themselves rather than just thier looks. It shows you aren't shallow etc.
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      I just talk to girls like I talk to anybody. There's no mysterious calculations being made in my head, I just talk. When I meet new girls, sometimes I just go up to them and go, "Hi, what's your name?" and it just goes from there.

      If they think I'm in it for the sex, I just keep talking, which pretty much shows that it's not my top priority.


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      I like jokes and making an ass out of myself and others. Embarrass her, but playfully.

      Karaoke bars are good places for that (don't know how old you are or the UK drinking age so that might be out.)

      Best pickup line I've used: "I usually have something funny to say, tell you what, think of something funny and then pretend that I said it." She thought it was hilarious and I swear that I got a date with her.

      I used to be really shy so this is what I did: A few summers ago I promised myself for that thirty days I would go up to a strange girl and try to hold a conversation with her. I got shot down ALOT, but am much better off because of it.

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      Tried to stop myself, can't... do... it. Must quote:

      "Son, a woman is a lot like a... a refrigerator! They're about six feet tall, 300 pounds. They make ice, and... um... Oh, wait a minute. Actually, a woman is more like a beer." - Homer Simpson

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      "I usually have something funny to say, tell you what, think of something funny and then pretend that I said it."
      Bahaha, sounds like something I'd say.


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      Quote Originally Posted by ninja9578 View Post
      I like jokes and making an ass out of myself and others. Embarrass her, but playfully.

      Karaoke bars are good places for that (don't know how old you are or the UK drinking age so that might be out.)

      Best pickup line I've used: "I usually have something funny to say, tell you what, think of something funny and then pretend that I said it." She thought it was hilarious and I swear that I got a date with her.

      I used to be really shy so this is what I did: A few summers ago I promised myself for that thirty days I would go up to a strange girl and try to hold a conversation with her. I got shot down ALOT, but am much better off because of it.

      exactly aren't some women just plain bitches? but yeah it pays off when you do it enough. I just laugh at women like that now.

      Me: excuse me I'm going to have to ask you to leave.


      Her: What WHY?

      Me: you were seen not smiling and not having a good time.

      HER: yeah like you'd know what a good time is...

      Me: you're right I'm not sure but it might involve tickling.
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      I'm guessing those intergalactic storm cloud monster bugs come out of sacred energy vortex angel gate medicine wheels.

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      Me: excuse me I'm going to have to ask you to leave.

      Her: What WHY?

      Me: you were seen not smiling and not having a good time.

      HER: yeah like you'd know what a good time is...

      Me: you're right I'm not sure but it might involve tickling.
      Wow, that is a strange chat up line. Did it work

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      It worked once. But I've never used it that often. I like trying to bring some fun out of the icequeens.
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      Quote Originally Posted by The Cusp View Post
      I'm guessing those intergalactic storm cloud monster bugs come out of sacred energy vortex angel gate medicine wheels.

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