If you are in the right state of mind for something, your reality will quickly follow.
And that is what's paradoxical for the WILD, we want to do the action that generates the state of mind that starts the dreaming process.
But that very action is actually NON-action. Doing nothing consciously is what puts you in that state of mind. We do this unconsciously every night, but if we want to lucid dream we have to learn to do this consciously. And to sleep consciously is basically to do nothing and just staying aware. Simple but not easy...
However, during the later stages of the night, we can use the opportunity window of our primed mind to enter a dream.
When I practised DEILD it could look like this:
Waking up and feeling that my awareness is different and my thoughts felt vivid and more tangible somehow. Then I just imagine a scenario and suddenly I realize that I can actually see it with my own eyes and I "merge" into it. In this case it's just good timing, but we want to learn how to make it more consistent.
It's our desire to be in control of this dream attraction process, but it can't be forced... You can only focus on learning the process of how to become the kind of person that dreams naturally are attracted to. From this experience you learned that "forcefulness and anxiousness" puts off the dream big time.
Think of your mind and dreams as a lady. 
Don't try to learn what they "think", learn what needs to be changed about yourself.
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