Hello all,
First of all thanks again for all the responses! On a topic like this I am very happy for the dialogue, which i believe helps fine-tune ideas, change them where necessary, and get to a better final theory. I wish I could answer all replies, but that would probably clutter up the thread far too much.
I also apologise to those who interpret my post in a certain way, and feel that it is inappropriate. It was not my intend to do so. In an effort to clarify:
 Originally Posted by Oneironaut
To the OP:
If you want to tell it like it is, tell it like it is: Lucidity does exist - just like your waking-world consciousness exists
I did, actually:
Quoted Redrivertears 10-02-2007:
Lots of response to the "Lucid Dreams don't exist" statement. I expected there would be You are ofcourse right. And I'm wrong. Lucid Dreams do exist. I deliberate made my statement provocative and extreme.
Still, I did it for a reason.
I never meant to imply that lucid dreams as such do not exist (and fortunately, it seems at least a part of the readers who made replies understood this). Rather my point was that we should try to look beyond the name towards the experience of the thing.
Especially for those of us who've not been fortunate enough to actually have a lucid dream, I imagine it must be difficult for them to really 'get' what the words are meant to symbolise. My advice to them is to try and imagine the feelings, the sensations of lucidity, and not get too hung up on all the talk about it. (Like for instance the hundred-and-one different VILD techniques we can find on these boards, which in matter of fact all refer back to the exact same thing).
Since I advocated the use of metaphores and analogies in an earlier reply, I'll give another one myself. Ask yourself, in the following examples, which one makes you want 'the bar of chocolate' more?
a) Tell yourself these words: "I want to have a bar of chocolate."
b) Imagine yourself sitting on a bench in a park, on a sunny day. it's not too warm nor too cold, and you have in your hand a recently bought bar of your favorite type of chocolate. Having all the time in the world you slowly unwrap the chocolate, savoring the smell of it, and run your fingers of its texture once. You bring it to your mouth and take a big bite, feeling the chocolate crumble first, then melt on your tongue. The sweet and rich taste fills your mouth, and you prepare for another bite.
Unless I'm wired very differently from anyone else, I think the second will get me us a lot closer to the experience of eating chocolate then the first will.
It's no different for lucid dreaming. The many theory's on lucidity are important and often necessary (not to mention highly constructive), but the one thing they do not do is actually impart the experience of it. Therefor they always have to be translated back to the experiental level, so we might better understand what they're all about.
I hope once more I've made things clearer this way,
Happy dreams!
-Redrivertears-
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