I think that is kind of dangerous to think, why are you unhappy with reality? |
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I am completely unhappy with my life and want to escape all the time. I'm afraid this will interfere with the ability to lucid dream because I'm too willing to accept a dream world as reality. What do you think? |
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I think that is kind of dangerous to think, why are you unhappy with reality? |
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I would rather die on my feet then to live on my knees.
obviously he does not want to say. blackfrancis, i will be honest. that should (if anything) improve your lucid dreaming. also, lucid dreaming will provide a refuge from the stresses of daily life, but remember: eventually it will come back to bite you on the ass. i hope you are not planning on some sort of "lucid coma" or something. *note to self: try to induce lucid coma* (only joking) |
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I need my sleep. I need about eight hours a day, and about ten at night.
Dreams aren't really a complete escape from reality because the issues and emotions that plague you in your "real life" often come back in full force in your "dream life" to be confronted. Learning to be lucid in your dreams will help you respond the same issues in new ways, rather than being trapped by them, and this is a skill that you can hopefully carry through to your waking life. Dreaming should complement your day-to-day life, rather than compete with it. |
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Photographer of dreams and all things unreal...
Really, between waking life and dream life there's not much of a difference if you're conscious enough. I don't see how it's dangerous to be dissatisfied with reality and I would think that that eagerness to escape should help you to achieve lucid dreams more often, as long as you channel that eagerness properly. |
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it only has to suck if you make it suck! again, use your lucid dreams to help issues about waking life. Can't go wrong there. |
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Nothing in life is to be feared, only to be explored
If your miserable in real life: A. I dont think your going to have an easy time achieveing a LD. And B. if you did, I have a feeling you would still be miserable since your closer to thinking and acting the same as you do in real life. |
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Well let me tell you something: |
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Luminous Spacious Dream Masters That Holographically Communicate
among other teachers taught me
not to overestimate the Value of our Concrete Knowledge;"Common sense"/Rationality,
for doing so would make us Blind for the unimaginable, unparalleled Capacity of and Wisdom contained within our Felt Knowledge;Subconscious Intuition.
Why won't you treat your life as a dream? |
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I really think Lucid Dreaming is not a refuge, or a hiding place. It's a recreation. |
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Quality LD's: 16
Lucid dreaming is not a place to hide from reality. If you go in with that attitude, your dreams will suck and you'll probably be worse off if you do it. |
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10 LDs and counting
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I don't think LDing should have anything to do with improving your waking life. To me, lucid dreaming is just a hobby, like snowboarding. I do it for fun, and no other reason. If you feel that your life sucks, don't try to use LDs as an outlet, because 1) it's not very reliable 2) it wont last and 3) it will do nothing to help whatever problem you're having in your waking life. Whatever is wrong right now you can either fix, or it will fix itself in time, even if that just means getting over whatever is making you unhappy. When people say reality sucks, I don't think it's true at all. Life is what you make it, and I'd have to say that I'm very happy with mine because I do what makes me happy and I don't dwell too much on the bad things. I've come to realize that a lot of what people get stressed over is very insignificant, even if it may seem like a big deal. I'm not saying that you should just stop being unhappy, but I'm just trying to give you some hope that your life doesn't have to suck, and if you really try you can probably make it better. |
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It sure is, I mean there is nothing saying that it's a bad thing. But I think you should reduce the hate and focus on getting there instead. Hate is very strong in you. I'm doing LDing for the EXACT same reason/purpose as you! So I know what your hate is.....overwhelming. |
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I am not sure why you are so unhappy or what your mental/physical state is, so I'll make my best statements. I don't think that your unhappiness will interfere with your ability to lucid dream, quite the contrary, but I think it could lead to your being obsessive about achieving lucidity. I experience the same thing occasionally and it makes matters worse. Obsession can help with your dedication and motivation, but may also harbor unhealthy behaviors and states of mind. I'd recommend getting help for your depression, and using lucid dreaming to help you achieve peace and happiness in conjunction with counseling or medication. I would not recommend trying to use LDing as an escape, as it can lead to actually feeling worse about your waking life. I say this from personal experience. |
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Last edited by Shift; 08-21-2008 at 04:49 PM. Reason: accidentally omitted "I" changed the meaning of a sentence
Lucid dreaming isn't going to help you escape reality, so much as just have some fun, people feel like it's some kind of new life, and then other's tell that person that it is somehow dangerous for them and it never is (I'm not citing guerilla specificly, I've heard lots of people say it), first of all you probably won't get to the point of mastering lucid dreams long enough to distract you from your waking life (sorry to crush your hopes) but most people only get up to like 30 min dream time to have fun at most, and the majority don't get this but only a time or so a week. |
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Last edited by LucidDreamGod; 08-21-2008 at 04:19 PM.
I wanna be the very best
Like no one ever was
To lucid dream is my real test
To control them is my cause
BlackFrancis I think your posting this is not a good idea. You'd actually get many views from people who couldn't agree/understand with your cause...makes it worse in my opinion. Wether it affects or not is really dependant on your subconcious and actual effect in the long run. Going back on my words... |
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Last edited by imj; 08-22-2008 at 08:40 AM.
Hell, this sounds like it can provide excellent motivation if you harness it right.. |
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Apparently it will be harder according to the concept of depth psychology. “Belief” in the dream symbols and experience is required for healing, personality integration or catharsis to take place. Lucidity can only arise if a person is relatively free of un-reconciled conflicts which form barriers. Anyway, I recently had a dream that I was in California and I actually said the word "dream". That's probably the closest I'll ever get to lucid dreaming. |
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Last edited by imj; 08-22-2008 at 03:00 PM.
I don't know I got the italicized part from wikipedia. |
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I know how you feel mate, but believe me, you don't want to go down this road. Reality is what matters, sure Lucid Dreaming is much more enjoyable than reality at times, but Lucid Dreaming is also a RESULT reality. In fact, everything you experiance in a dream is a result of a similar experiance in real life. (If not similar, it pulls parts of previous experiances to make it "feel" like it is correct) I had a similar problem, trying to escape into my dreams. It just makes reality worse and worse and makes Lucid Dreaming more like an addiction than a nice little bonus to life. Just face up to whatever is going wrong in your life, do what you can to fix it, if you need somone to help you go to a friend, or if no one like that exists, you have US! When it is all over, no matter what the outcome, good or bad, you will feel satisfied with yourself because you know that you tried your best to fix it. |
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