Thread: I need emergency help!!! O_o!!!

Originally Posted by macron12388

Okay, so I have a friend. She is a victim of cyber bullying, this jerk has just been harrasing her and the situation has gotten out of control.
My friend is very young. I fear she is taking things too heavily and might hurt herself. I know younger people can be a bit immature ( I mean that in the nicest way possible) and might let emotions and hormones decide their actions instead of their common sense.
Well...here is what I need help with:
I need someone to please reply within the next hour
on how to somehow make contact with her in her sleep, I just want to make sure she is okay. I have had no communication with her all day since I got back from school. I just want to make sure she is okay. I could very possibly be overworrying and the fact that she hasn't been online is she decided to ignore the jerk and just go do something else (I hope this is what happened :[ )

Sorry if I sound demanding and ignorant, it's just I don't have much time and I care about her very much, so any tips on what I want to accomplish?
Thanks for your help guys.

If you think she might hurt her physical body, she needs physical intervention. If you think she might kill herself, call 911. If she's going to self-injure, you should probably still call 911.

If you're seriously worried about her health or safety and you know her rl contact information, it may be a good idea to contact a parent or the authorities.

If you've done some lucid dreaming in the past, there may be some people around here who can talk with you about their experiences with shared dreaming, but from what I understand it's not terribly easy to do with someone who isn't actively into the idea. You can try to think about her as you are going to sleep in the hopes of having a dream with your friend in it, and that might be enough to help calm you down.

You seem very urgent for a sleep related matter. First things first, do you have good recall? Can you get lucid at will? If you don't then your attempts will be futile. You seem to have a good amount of intent, so it's possible to share a dream with her, but pretty unlikely IMO. I've only shared a dream with my dad (fairly unintentionally as well), but if you have bad recall, you don't have a good chance, and if you cant get lucid, intent alone might not be enough.

This sort of thing has happened to me, but to be honest, a dream wouldn't be enough. Not only is there the fact they could have been a DC, and you were successful, there's also the chance that she has hurt herself, and her dream body doesn't show it. Also, if you help her in the dream, and make her feel better, she'll probably forget all about it by the time she wakes up.

A call in the morning would be more helpful and reliable. Even a text could put your mind at ease quicker.

As for the process itself, look at MoSh's and Nomad's tutorials. The intent, and while lucid, looking for their energy signature, how they "feel" and going there (teleporting, flying, or otherwise) sounds to be the best way. Good luck.

Thanks. I think alot of what she says about feeling like hurtin herself might just be alot of talking. I hope it is... I know I blew alot of hot air when I was young. But I still want to be sure she is okay. I am just worried because I have heard, as I am sure you have, about young unstable teens that have just entered puberty being emotionally unstable and hurting themselves. We are very close and always talk to eachother about our dreams and we occasionaly have dreams with eachother in them (not shared dreaming). I have NEARLY just NNNEEAARRRLLYY had an OBE during the Summer at day time. It was amazing...but I was very quickly frighetened by that large "boom" people talk about and I guess my consciousness/spirit snapped back into my body. I will do it for her tonight though, and not be scared, I know where she lives, and will check up on her...
Gosh...as I read what I typed back to myself, this sounds like mission impossible. :/
EDIT: Yes, I can usually get 8/10; lucids/attempts and have excellent recall of lucid and non lucid dreams.
EDITED FOR SAKE OF USING EDIT: Okay guys, here I go. I know it hasn't been an hour but...

Originally Posted by macron12388

Thanks. I think alot of what she says about feeling like hurtin herself might just be alot of talking. I hope it is... I know I blew alot of hot air when I was young. But I still want to be sure she is okay. I am just worried because I have heard, as I am sure you have, about young unstable teens that have just entered puberty being emotionally unstable and hurting themselves. We are very close and always talk to eachother about our dreams and we occasionaly have dreams with eachother in them (not shared dreaming). I have NEARLY just NNNEEAARRRLLYY had an OBE during the Summer at day time. It was amazing...but I was very quickly frighetened by that large "boom" people talk about and I guess my consciousness/spirit snapped back into my body. I will do it for her tonight though, and not be scared, I know where she lives, and will check up on her...
Gosh...as I read what I typed back to myself, this sounds like mission impossible. :/
EDIT: Yes, I can usually get 8/10; lucids/attempts and have excellent recall of lucid and non lucid dreams.
EDITED FOR SAKE OF USING EDIT: Okay guys, here I go. I know it hasn't been an hour but...

Well, the problem with it being "just a lot of talking" is sometimes people may talk about it for attention and then really do it, even accidentally killing themselves when they only meant to self-injure. Any talk about wanting to hurt oneself is a suicide gesture and needs to be taken seriously. Your friend needs some kind of counseling.