Thread: I wasn't sure where to post this....

Now, looking at this from a metaphysical standpoint, the only reason for you to cross-connect to a perhaps "past-life"-romance would be if it was necessary. Whatever he is, he is here to show you something.
You said you don't feel any need for a significant other and I assume you walk around with that attitude and perhaps it is repelling romance. And with this romantic energy entity entering your dreams and awakening those kinds of feeling within you it may be just to prepare you for meeting 'a significant other'. Since you are not "practicing" romance in your real life, you are instead forced to do so in your dreams. That makes sense to me, because these experiences increases the chances of you allowing that special someone to come into your life.

Best thing you can do is seriously ask yourself if you want romance or not, and do it in a deep state. Maybe, the feeling about that you don't need it is denial. You can even ask yourself if you want it or not and come to the final conclusion that you don't and still you can't see that a deeper part of you actually wants it, because we are not always in contact with the deeper aspects of ourselves.

Also, if you are wondering why these experiences are happening now and not before. It could be because you were not ready and if you are not ready(to atleast some degree) for a romantic experience and still undergo it, that would only de-evolve you and bury the need for romance even deeper.

These experiences happening in this timing is maybe because you are at a appropriately mature level to investigate the positive experiences of romance instead of just de-evaluate it and walk away from it(which is more easily done than trying to integrate romantic feelings).