That is a very interesting post, JadedDreamer24.

You might want to read up a bit on the Jungian idea of the anima and animus. Jung suggests that we often encounter a character of the opposite sex that embodies those features of the gender we are not, but posess inside ourselves to some extent. This is considered part of the 'dark side' of the mind, which should not be seen as particularly negative. Often, the dark side contains exciting and creative aspects of ourselves that we normally reject.

Often individuals who encounter a figure like this who have psychoanalytic oversight are encouraged to understand, incorporate, and learn from these figures, but not to mistake them for a 'true' and complete repressed self - just another side of ourselves that we tend to reject for one reason or another.