Thread: Dream that shook my foundation of reality

FUCKING BULL SHIT!

Don't I mean, NO FUCKING BULLSHIT!

YAY

I'm officely Stupid!

I've always been pretty skeptical, but I believe this could have happened.
that sounds incredible. I have no idea how I would react about it myself, but I think it just shows you that there's more to our dreams/existence than we could possibly comprehend. You should appreciate the fact that you were able to experience something like that, and treasure the memory of such an incredible experience.

Join me in my... quest to try to figure this out. The Cusp somewhat knows how to do it, but he gets at least one message a day from people asking him to come find them. He's agreed to help me learn, and then he can refer those people to me. If I make any leeway, I'll let you know. Until then, anybody have any interesting information?

I've been on the quest for a long time and I figured it out; All dreams are shared dreams.

ChaybaChyaba, your wanted poster is outdated .

Originally Posted by Moloch

On a side note, this dream happened right after a very emotional night for me. I had repressed my emotions for a long time, and being a cancer (though I don't put much faith in astrology), I have been told that I am supposed to be very emotional, and repressing them is a bad thing.

Anyway, I had really let things go that day, and talked with her about a couple things I had never told anyone before. We had a very strong connection that day, and I have never felt more vulnerable in front of someone before. I don't know that this has anything to do with the dream, but it could be a major connection that we shared which helped us to connect in the dream world... just a thought.

I came back to Dreamviews today looking for a situation kinda similar to this in some ways, but this is a little interesting. Yesterday, I, a cancer, had gotten emotional about a little thing that just kinda bothered me with my friends/love interest... After a little drama with everybody, we decided to hit a reset button, and I went from unbearably uncomfortable and just wanting to go home to incredibly happy and not wanting to leave... It was a weird day. Said love interest also interacted with me a little differently than she has in a long time, and that was kinda in the back of my mind as I was falling asleep... As I drifted into a daydream, I saw her in a new light (I'm not usually able to really picture people I interact a lot with) and suddenly, I felt this intense connection to her, she took up my senses entirely, and my head started spinning and everything suddenly had a weight and significance to it that I normally associate with a premonition dream...

Anyway, enough about my experience, I just thought it was kinda interesting how similar it all was.

Originally Posted by The Cusp

There is a growing bad attitude on this forum in regards to anything of that nature, and people seem to be treating these kinds of threads like a personal insult.

That has been the opposite of my experience, but we probably read different sub-forums, and are talking about a different time-frame, since you joined sooner. Its better now than it was two years ago. Also, I've found an approach with skeptics that I'm happy with. It seems that shared dreaming skeptics not only don't believe in shared dreaming, they actively don't want to experience it. So I just offer to share a dream experience, in a post or in a private message, and so far that always ends the argument.

From what I have seen, there was some destructively manipulative personality-cult type stuff going on with shared dreaming on this site a few years ago. I don't fault the skeptics for wanting to be free of that sort of thing. Sharing dreams in a healthy way requires a lot of respect for other people's freedom and personal space, and a lot of people who have been into shared dreaming haven't had that.