Questions about my LDs - How to fix it.

**lschievenin** · 05-14-2010 07:24 PM

I had my first LD at three night ago.
and last night i had another one.

First i will tell you guys my dream, than you can help me with some questions i have

-Lucid Dream: I got out of a building, and walked too the building just at the side of the one i leaved.
It was made of a looot of mirrors.

I was going to enter it, but than i saw my face and there was a big red thing in my nose. Suddenly i was looking at the mirror again, and it wasnt there. Than i realized i had just wished that the red thing be gone of my nose, and it was gone! So i did a Reality Check, and..

HAAAAAAAAAAAAA! I was Lucid! Than i started to think about the things i would do and started walking quickly. My cousin was going to my direction, and was talking some shit.. (he was small, but and as he was getting close to me, he was getting bigger *with some colorful sparkles behind him*) I got close to him, and yelled to him: I AM IN A LUCID DREAAAAM! Passed him and started flying/floating in the air really high! Than i saw my mother on the other side of the street, and i wanted to talk with her. Than i tried to get back to the floor, at the first time i couldnt, than i tried again, i got to the ground slowly.

I walked through the street, and took her with me and told her that we would go see her parents, just passing the building door.

Than she turned into a really beautiful woman (not my mom), and i started groping here boobs HAHAHAHA and walking to the door. When we got there the girl said: `Just wait a second i ill fix my umbrella`.. I was waiting her, in front of the door. And i saw some cool shoes on the floor, and i started staring at it, and in 10sec just looking it, i was awake (really awake, not false)

Ok.
Now my questions:

-Why in the dreams i am always really apathetic? ( this is just my second lucid)

-When i waked up, i saw that the clock was 1:28AM. How is it possible, if i went to sleep at 23:30PM? ( i was reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally tired)

-Why i dont remember to do the things i want to do, when i become lucid? (the technique of making it vivid is one of this things)

-When i become lucid, and just a few moments before it, my dream is reaaaally vivid, very real, but when i become lucid, it stay vivid and real for some minutes, and than it starts to fade the vividness. Is this normal? Is not possible to get a LD fully real, just as real life?

-Why when i wake up, a few minutes after it, i just dont feel that the dream was so real as i was feeling (just in the beggining) in the dream?

EDITING TO ADD ANOTHER QUESTION:

-I see that people have some difficulty in flying in their Lucid Dreams, or teleporting, and stuff.
Well, at my first LD i teleported just with imagining the place, and blinking!
and at this one, i simply wished to fly and i flied! So this make me think: Why i can do this so easily? Do you think, im not lucid dreaming? Im just dreaming of being lucid? HAHAHA

I would like that you guys answer all the questions, putting numbers at the answers, or indicating what question are u answering.

Im really sorry foy my english

peace

**tulamidan** · 05-14-2010 10:51 PM

Your problem is the awareness. There are quite a bunch of posts about it and you'll have to find your own way to deal with it. Meditation is one of them, or writing down what you want to do and read it out before going to bed. Make regular RCs. I'm trying with (self) hypnosis and NLP (see induction thread) and got a first positive result (after 2-3 month)

**Banana King** · 05-14-2010 11:06 PM

Originally Posted by lschievenin

-When i become lucid, and just a few moments before it, my dream is reaaaally vivid, very real, but when i become lucid, it stay vivid and real for some minutes, and than it starts to fade the vividness. Is this normal? Is not possible to get a LD fully real, just as real life?

-Why when i wake up, a few minutes after it, i just dont feel that the dream was so real as i was feeling (just in the beggining) in the dream?

For the first one I say that you should try stabilizing the dream when it gets less vivid. And yes it's even possible to get a lucid dream which is more vivid than real life I believe.

For the second one I say that that's like IWL. Does the thing that happened an hour ago feel as real now? Dreams are easier to forget though, especially details. I think that's why people tend to think that dreams aren't as vivid as real life.

**lschievenin** · 05-15-2010 12:56 AM

Thanks guys..
would enjoy having another answers

I HAVE ADD ANOTHER QUESTION:

-I see that people have some difficulty in flying in their Lucid Dreams, or teleporting, and stuff.
Well, at my first LD i teleported just with imagining the place, and blinking!
and at this one, i simply wished to fly and i flied! So this make me think: Why i can do this so easily? Do you think, im not lucid dreaming? Im just dreaming of being lucid? HAHAHA

**lschievenin** · 05-15-2010 11:34 PM

sorry for this, but i would love if someone could help me with those questions for me to have a clear goal tonight

**ruba** · 05-16-2010 12:04 AM

Well, in my first LD I also noticed I was lucid by the fact that I "wished" something and it happened.
And I suffered from the same problem as you did: No clear real life memories (for things to do list / urgency to make your dream more vivid just by yelling "vividness!)
However, the second LD I had (which was actually a WILD) I did remember everything I wanted to do, but WILDing "feels" totally different (for example, I didn't lose the ability to think clearly for a second)
Just think about it some more, and you'll see that you start remembering and doing those things in your dreams to.

And yes, some people have much problems doing impossible things in their dreams, while other, like you and me, teleport ourselves in the first random LD we have

oh, and try to use less exaggerated font sizes please

by the way:: are you, by any chance, Dutch?
edit: oh, well, never mind, you're probably Italian, right?

**lschievenin** · 05-16-2010 12:21 AM

Im brazilian

thanks a lot, you made everything clear to me now!

Just one last question i would like that anyone could answer me, cuz it happened to me last night, with a very very vivid dream, (and maybe lucid, cuz i actually knew it wasnt real life, but i dont remember if i had said to myself `this is a lucid dream`)

-The dream im saying in the topic, when i waked up, i saw the clock and it was 1:28.
(it wasnt a false awakening, at least i made a RC, and it failed)

And the dream i just said, (that i dont know if it was lucid), i waked up at 2:00.
(and it wasnt a false awakening, at least i made a RC, and it failed)

How is it possible, if the dream cycle starts some hours after we sleep?
OBS.: Both nights i was reaaaaally tired, and i had a nap in the afternoon, of 1-2hours.
OBS 2.:The second dream i said, i didnt feeled me falling asleep, and actually in the first scenes of the dream, i was TOTALLY SURE, i was just vizualizing the scenes in my head while trying to fall asleep, and not living it, or dreaming.