Thanks for that! I guess that over time I have learned to release some of my fears, but obviously I do want that financial and personal freedom! Believe me, if it were easy to start my own busines, I would. But here in Belgium, you are taxed to death before they give you the chance to make any money. I've tried a few years back. I will try again of course. Just need to make sure there is always some kind of regular income, even if that means unemployment benefits :-(
Funny you are from Durban. My kids' father is from Durban. He's an ass but still, South Africa is close to my heart, and I have many South African friends! Thanks for your perspective.