2 similar dreams about ex

**insomniandrea** · 03-04-2011 01:13 AM

Hello! I would really love somebodies opinion on 2 dreams I've had about my ex...these dreams really disturb me, I feel like theres truth in them but I cant figure out what it is...

The first dream I had about my ex is after we broke up, maybe 1 or 2 nights after he broke up with me. He said that he didnt know who he is or what he wanted anymore and that he needed time to think. We used to party a lot, and we live in a small city. I was devastated pretty much, but Ive never really dreamt about him when we were together. We broke up about 7 or 8 months ago but continued to be friends....with benefits I spose, seeing as he kind of led me on a little bit. Think its over now...

I dreamt I was at a party by myself, and it was about 8 am, i was surrounded by people Ive never met and I was in a room Ive never been in. What I can remember is it was nearly dawn outside, winter time. I left this party and went to another one. To get to this party I had to walk up a lot of stairs and it was on a roof, more people Ive never met. I looked around at the view of the city and there were bridges leading from one rooftop to another, kind of those straw rickety ones attached by strong ropes. I walked across it, towards my own house which was just over the bridge (underneath is the river) to another building. I entered the building and went into a room, which was all smokey and there were huge black speakers pumping out music and more people Ive never met. I sat on a couch and looked through the smoke, and saw my ex sitting on the ground, back against the wall and wearing a hat. He looked so forlorn and lost, his cigarette just burning away by itself in his hand and he was looking down at the ground. I turned to look the other way and when I looked again he was gone. I went looking for him in the apartment and couldn't find him,....and then I woke up.

The second dream I had about him was recently. I've been kind of suspicious of him seeing somebody else whilst being with me for a couple of months, and he denied it, and my gut told me he was not entirely being honest....espescially when I saw them recently at a club, he was just picking her up and swinging her around. I dont know what is going on exactly, but seeing as hes my ex its none of my business, but I wanted to know because he was still being a little flirty with me.

So anyways! The second dream is we are both back at that last apartment and theres another party going on. He pulls out a bag of presents that he's bought for this other girl (lets call her Suzie). He shows me a book that apparantly she likes reading ( i have no idea) and a candy necklace. When I looked at the candy necklace I turned around and said to him "A necklace? This means that you love her." And he turns around grabs my hand and holds it, almost squeezing it and looks into my eyes and then away from me, all the time holding my hand.....and then I woke up.

Yeah the whole things been on my mind a while now...I just cant figure out what any of this means, if anything! Any help would be much appreciated!! xx

**Suena** · 03-10-2011 10:25 PM

Those do seem somewhat foreboding. But maybe it isn't meant to be. Remember, nobody's better at interpreting your dreams than yourself. I'm not so good at this, but remember the people you interact with in your dreams are mostly projections of your personality. I forget about that often when I'm trying to figure out a dream and when I remind myself it sort of starts to make sense. Hope this helps even just a little.

**insomniandrea** · 03-11-2011 08:16 PM

it does a little! A friend told me the fact that it was a candy necklace signifies its not worth much to him, but its candy! hmmm

thanks so much!

**Dreamanity** · 03-13-2011 05:16 AM

Hi there!

It sounds like it could be a manifestation of your feelings regarding your ex. Even though it seems like they might be serious, deep down you want the truth to be that he loves you and that she is just for fun (the candy necklace). The time (8am) and the season (winter) might be pointing towards the fact that the 'harsh reality' had set in by that time ( a few days after your break up) of the relationship ending. The straw bridges over water might represent how you were feeling emotionally about all of it, losing your connection to him and having to get past the sadness of it all etc. Finding him forlorn and lost once the 'smoke cleared' could again be that wish inside you that he was actually not happy in some way that he had broken up with you....

Those are my thoughts, I hope they help you with a full interpretation of these dreams!
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