Hi
You know, I don't think you should take this dream so literally. Dreams are more often than not a mishmash of symbols, and does not mean that what you dream will happen, or even that you want it it happen.
There is no reason to feel bad about the dream neither. It's your mind trying to tell you something. The fact that it involves sex should not make you worried, rather the other way around.
Let's look at the symbols.
First there's the 3 of you. You are having a conversation. This problably would indicate that this dream might be about communication?
How do you view your friend? How was he acting in the dream? Were there some behaviour that you could relate to? Maybe you yourself are being indifferent towards a person, or a subject, or your own feelings?
Maybe there are things you SHOULD be aware of, that your are unwilling to see?
The girl wanting your attention may be a symbol for how you distract yourself from the object you are trying to be indifferent to, even though you know you should care?
It might be your own feelings towards someone entirely different than this girl. It might be parts of yourself that you should pay attention to. I think this symbol is brilliant as to telling you that you allow yourself to be distracted.
Why, in your dreams, did you not push the girl away? What were your feelings? Look at them, and try to figure out if they match your feelings towards something else?
The guilt I reckon is you feeling guilty about what you are "trying not to notice" in neglecting either parts of your personality or your feelings towards something.
The sex itself, well, you didn't feel guilty then.. so maybe this is the core to this dream? Maybe you just look at sex or intimacy.. or the "moral" towards sex in a way that stresses you out, and the dream is telling you to chill
That you didn't want here to go away afterwards makes me again think that the dream is telling you that what you are trying to ignore.. is a good thing. It may not be sex at all..
Look at the girl in the dream. She was the "aggressive" part. Is this how she normally behaves? If not, what was different? Are there any similarities to how you might behave .. ? And again, not necessarily with sex in focus.
All dreams are good dreams. No reason to freak out. But you should pay attention
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