Terrible to hear that such a thing happened to you. Actually i'm not able to interpret dreams but this story made me want to say how much I regret it for you that your boyfriend died. It must be a terrible thing to experience! |
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This is going to be probably really long and I do apologize but also thanks for the help!! |
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Terrible to hear that such a thing happened to you. Actually i'm not able to interpret dreams but this story made me want to say how much I regret it for you that your boyfriend died. It must be a terrible thing to experience! |
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Thank you Robert......it really means a lot |
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You are welcome. |
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I would also like to offer my sympathies to you. As if losing someone so close isn't hard enough, you're also left with the questions raised by the dreams. |
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Bu
Thank you!! Yeah sleeping has been hard to do lately but when I do most of my dreams are all over the place, even if I wake up in the middle of the night, it will be a different off the wall dream. Every night since his death Ive had dreams though which is unsual for me....but I guess under the circumstance its really not. I did finally dream about him and it didnt make much sense...Ill post it below |
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First and foremost, let me say that my heart goes out to you for your loss-that is something nobody should have to experience. I wish you all the luck in the world in the future, and hope you can come to some sort of peace with what has happened. My main point in posting, however, was to correct a substantial (if understandable) error earlier on in the thread. I am a student of physics, and am well versed in quantum mechanics, and I can tell you without a doubt that no current branch of physics can account for information or messages traveling backwards through time. The question about the arrow of time (why we only move in one temporal direction) is a complex one, but it relates to the behavior of entropy. This story may be coming from a certain area of Quantum Electrodynamics, developed by Richard Feynman, where it was theorized that nuclear reactions between individual elementary particles can proceed both backwards and forwards. It is quite a subtle point, but by no means does it say that humans can communicate future events to the past. |
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Last edited by plamadude30k; 09-15-2010 at 12:15 PM.
You have my sympathies |
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I am the combination of an analist and a therapist. The world's first Analrapist!
-Tobias Fünke
Dreams like this are very rare, and very powerful. I hope that you are recording all your dreams for later review. |
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Thank you Ray23 |
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Thank you plamadude30k |
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daeryk......im not recording them as most are off the wall and probably not make much sense.....the only other dream I had of him since the accident is posted above but I will repost....if you could tell me what you think |
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I don't want to start an offtopic discussion but to reply to plamadude30k; |
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Sounds like your dreams have become more random, with no discernable themes. Interesting that you are having and recalling the dreams, though. If you can motivate yourself to do so, recording the dreams and finding patterns and common themes may help you more than looking at any one dream in isolation. Failing that, spend a few moments each day reacquainting yourself with your last dream(s) and maybe get a sense of anything that feels uncomfortable, odd, scary, exciting or whatever. |
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Bu
I'm really sorry for your loss, krystalld =/ The same thing has actually happened to me four years ago, though we hadn't been going out for so long... we had barely begun, actually. Either way, I one night had a terrible nightmare about how I suddenly found out that he was dead one morning and had to attend his funeral... then I locked myself up in my room for days (in the dream) and refused to eat, and only cried... heavy rain fell everyday from the time I found out he was dead to the funeral itself. |
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SnowyDreams......Im sorry to hear about your experience as well.....its a horrible thing to have to go through no matter how long your together....its just not fair!! |
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god bless you and I've had a dream about my girlfriend dieing in a car accident 30 years in our relationship. we have only been going out for 1 year. hope it doesn't happen to me. |
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Thank you.......Yeah I hope it doesnt happen to you too....but just be aware cause you never know. |
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Let me say, I wouldn't want to do ANYTHING if that happened to me. I'd curl up in a corner somewhere and act like I had claustraphobia x10. |
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@SapphireSkies |
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I'm so sorry for your loss krystalkl... |
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This also happened to me, I had dreams about 3 years before my partner became ill and died. I would wake up in a panic and then realise he was there with me. I then thought something was going to happen to him and told him to see a doctor which he did but they didn't find anything wrong with him. These dreams stopped and then he became ill about 3 years after I had them. I have no idea how that happened apart from I wonder if subconciously I knew he wasn't well even though he had no symptoms of anything and was really fit. I have spoken to a friend who's wife died and he had dreams about her dying 7 years before she did in the same kind of way that I did. |
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Omg I'm so sorry to have read about your dream here is,mine: |
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