Hello there JC ^_^ First of all welcome to dreamviews
Now, let me tell you what I think.
I should say though, that you dont say whether or not you have had any sort of feelings for your friend in the past or not, but perhaps this is what you are so confused about?
I think it is most of all important that you should look inside yourself, within your heart. When you think about him, what do you feel? How close would you want to be with him? Imagine you two cuddling in bed (no sex), kissing eachother, imagine a passionate kiss, or possible love making. How do these images make you feel?
Ask yourself what he really means to you. Can you see you and him in romantic activities? (Candle light dinner, massages, flowers ^_~) I know it might be hard, and one might be tempted to say 'I dont know' , but if you look deep inside its there, Im sure! There is always this small sparkle that says 'I want this' or 'I dont want this'.
Remember, you have to listen to your heart. Not only (or even mostly) your dream. Even though I respect our dreams and believe they might carry a message, the true answers are always within yourself, and dreams can aid you to find them..or confuse you greatly =P That's why I didnt give an interpretation.
What Leo said seems like nonsense to me, but of course you have to decide about that yourself, as you might find wisdom in his words. (sorry Leo, but that's how I feel). Its hard to say that 'somebody is not good enough for you', that would be called arrogance ^_~ But seriously, you'll have to make up your mind yourself. What do you look for in a boyfriend? Does he have it? Are you perhaps afraid of losing your friendship? Talk to him about that if you are
Just remember that you should not do anything against your will, if you love him in such a way, do not let anything stop you. Certainly not a dream. If you don't, be honest about it and tell him. But remember, love comes in so many different ways, and you will always love him of course
I hope it will work out for you both in the best way possible! Who knows, maybe a beautiful relationship will come from it. Or maybe not..who knows? I dont..but, all the above is just what I think ^_^
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