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      is it a sign that my deceased grandfather appeared in my boyfriends dream?!

      My boyfriend never met my grandfather. He had a dream that he was a in the kitchen getting some soup and he heard a weird noise downstairs in the basement and he went to go check it out. He said it was dark and in front of him was a built shadow of a man. The hair was slick back and had a curl upfront in the forehead. That hairstyle was my grandfathers everyday hair. And my boyfriend says he didnt feel threatened by the shadow but he just felt prepared in case the unknown shadow did try something. The shadow started walking towards him they were just looking at each other for a while and kept looking at each other as he shadow approached him. The shadow then walk straight by him like he wasn't even there and walked through a wall. I just know its my grandfather that hair that my boyfriend explained to me its him... what does it mean?! My grandfather was my father he raised me since I was a baby I was his entire world and he was mine. What could it possibly mean they havent met?!??!?! Please let me know if you can figure it out im really confused.

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      I think it means that you knew your grandfather and your boyfriend knows you, and people's subconscious minds aren't 100% separate. I don't think you can draw any conclusions such as about your future with your boyfriend. Your grandfather appears as a shadow because that's sort of what your boyfriend's impression of him is, but it doesn't tell you a lot beyond that. If the dream is intended as a sign you'll know the meaning better than anyone, but if you put too much trust into your interpretation of it as a sign you might be surprised and hurt. I hope that helps some.

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      Cool YOUR BOYFRIEND'S shadow

      How appropriate shadow answers about a shadow.☻

      Stardom101, maybe you draw a long bow to conclude slick back hair - which is common - and a curl - less common - means your grandfather.

      YOUR GRANDFATHER
      But if it could be: As you were so close, can it be your grandfather still looking out for you?
      Is your boyfriend all good, nothing wrong with him? If he is only good, the shadow aspect seems too dark and heavy for that.

      YOUR BOYFRIEND'S SHADOW
      That shadow might mean a shadow or darkness in your boyfriend's mind then, as in his basement means below his surface. The hairstyle can also fit sometimes with dark types (no reflection on your grandfather of course) - and symbollically maybe means all thought slicked back with no attention to thought like it should be - except the curl of confusion at the front where awarness might be.
      So this shadow in your boyfriend was no threat to him, but he was weary of this darkness in case it did try something - whether from him or outside. Perhaps you can ask him if he has a shadow on his mind, though it may just be the general one always there with us all.
      But he kept looking at it, as it came toward him. So it's something he is looking at, and keeps looking at. And then the shadow - which is not real, but rather an imprint or form cast by light and left by the real person - walks right by as if he wasn't there. That suggests he feels ignored, or perhaps second. This shadow can go through his wall, that perhaps he can't.

      YOUR BOYFRIEND'S THOUGHT OF YOUR GRANDFATHER
      So there is a medium possibility, blending both possibilities.
      What if your boyfriend knows how close you were to your grandfather, and that light or seeing creates a shadow or inadequacy or question in your boyfriend? That would be a natural response, I think. Surely you have described his hairstyle? But if not, the subconscious can know what the conscious does not (I got outta that one.) See, even if he didn't, and the dream is about him, maybe that part can be filled in because he was a real person.
      Or maybe it's a double-meaning including the symbols I said, reflecting your boyfriend, dove-tailing with the greandfather. Anyway, that's more details and secondary.

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